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It has been a difficult year. Not only did my mum die I have had a health scare. I have suffered with health anxiety. This cold Winter has also taken its toll....

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Rough year.

It has been a difficult year. Not only did my mum die I have had a health scare....

Cmbs

•9 days ago

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How are you really feeling, now that the festive period is over?

It feels really weird right now, the dark wet, and [snowy day] seems to have had a strange almost eerie effect. It would be easy to go back to bed, but now...

It feels really weird right now, the dark wet, and [snowy day] seems to have had...

Was it truly hard for you? Chloe

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How did you get through the holiday period

Hope everyone has a beautiful day!

Administrator•16 days ago

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Merry Christmas!

Cpearl

•24 days ago

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Bereavement Care & Share send....

Seasons greetings to you all. I wish you all a peaceful, healthy New Year. Thank you all for taking the trouble to post in our Community. Chloe

Seasons greetings to you all. I wish you all a peaceful, healthy New Year. Tha...

So, during this time, I try to celebrate those I love and have lost. I'll be keeping my candle alight every day and evening too, it will be next to photos...

Administrator•26 days ago

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Holiday times are often even harder for those grieving.

So, during this time, I try to celebrate those I love and have lost. I'll be ke...

What little something gives you a small lift and respite from your thoughts. Chloe

Administrator•1 month ago

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When all around you is miserable and you're grieving....

What little something gives you a small lift and respite from your thoughts. ...

Administrator•1 month ago

Today, I went to a children Christmas Carol concert. It was so uplifting, the effort of the little ones warms the heart and lifts the spirit, and I felt so...

A little upliftment goes a long way

Today, I went to a children Christmas Carol concert. It was so uplifting, the e...

Administrator•1 month ago

Today I lost my control again. Somebody texted me this morning using an explanation point (how my sister did before she died) and I thought I was ok, but I...

I can't ask for help, and it's been a bad day.

Today I lost my control again. Somebody texted me this morning using an explanat...

Kimmy14263

•1 month ago

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My friend decided it was time to go.

A forty-five-year-old person should see a better road ahead than focusing on the torn-up one behind. But this is what Kam chose to do. He couldn't see forward...

A forty-five-year-old person should see a better road ahead than focusing on the...

Senior4merEverything

•1 month ago

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Does the quietness make loss so much more difficult to bear or perhaps you don't mind this?

Personally, I like the quiet but I can understand others would find this difficult to cope with. I also understand that memories tend to flood the mind when...

Personally, I like the quiet but I can understand others would find this difficu...

I'm not sure what is happening with me. I feel like I am being haunted. The last day I spent with my sister before she died that night, all the things we did...

Administrator•1 month ago

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Very overwhelmed and very alone

I'm not sure what is happening with me. I feel like I am being haunted. The last...

Kimmy14263

•1 month ago

I've never posted here before I don't think. I feel like a bad parent...I lost my sweet boy to stillbirth over 2 years ago. I don't go to his grave enough, it...

Feeling down this evening

I've never posted here before I don't think. I feel like a bad parent...I lost m...

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•2 months ago

Hi, my grandad is very unwell and likely to die in hospital- I have known it is coming for a while as he is elderly and has slowly deteriorated but now I am...

Grandad poorly

Hi, my grandad is very unwell and likely to die in hospital- I have known it i...

Bolt21

•2 months ago

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Will you be sharing Christmas with family members or will you be alone this year?

Me, I'm desperately hoping to be able to share with family this year. The past 3 years I haven't been able to, but that will depends on everyone being free...

Me, I'm desperately hoping to be able to share with family this year. The past 3...

I've lost yet another neighbour and so it goes on, sometimes this continual loss of people we have grown to like and care for seems never ending. Maybe it's...

Administrator•2 months ago

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How's your week been?

I've lost yet another neighbour and so it goes on, sometimes this continual los...

Just type your post up in the main box. Just below the box is 'Share ' just click 'Community only' and then post as usual. Chloe

Administrator•2 months ago

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How to lock your posts to ensure they remain private

Just type your post up in the main box. Just below the box is 'Share ' just c...

I went to the crematorium today to visit where my sisters ashes were scattered. I have a bench there for my daughter even though her ashes aren’t there. It had...

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my sister.

I went to the crematorium today to visit where my sisters ashes were scattered. ...

Caza

•2 months ago

seeing the celebrant at 2 this afternoon. My sister is picking me up as she knows I won’t be there otherwise. Meeting at mums. We’ve talked about the music and...

I don’t want to go to my dads funeral

seeing the celebrant at 2 this afternoon. My sister is picking me up as she know...

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•2 months ago

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How's everyday life for you at the moment?

It's seems to me to be a very odd time, maybe it's because the days are dark and the evenings are upon us early, whatever it is, I'm don't care for it much....

It's seems to me to be a very odd time, maybe it's because the days are dark and...

It has been over five months since mum died. I am reminded of mum an dad (who also died) every day. It is not easy. I'm not sure I will get over it.🙁😞😣🫤

Administrator•2 months ago

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Mum's passing

It has been over five months since mum died. I am reminded of mum an dad (who al...

Cmbs

•3 months ago

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Many of us have had health issues since our loss….

How has yours been after a period of time, has it improved? Chloe

Administrator•3 months ago

it’s 4am, been sitting her with my dad, hes88, ambulance left about half 1. Mum called them because he’s not feeling great and she was worried. He didn’t want...

Plucking at bedclothes

it’s 4am, been sitting her with my dad, hes88, ambulance left about half 1. Mum ...

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•3 months ago

Say 6months, people think you should be back to 'normal' and your grief has disappeared? Chloe

Have you found that after...

Say 6months, people think you should be back to 'normal' and your grief has disa...

Than 6-12 months ago? Chloe

Administrator•3 months ago

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Do you feel you have more confidence in your life without your loved one now….

I have bought a funeral plan. I thought I'd feel better and it would put my mind at rest but I've felt down and depressed, but I suppose it had to be done....

Administrator•3 months ago

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Well the deed was completed !

I have bought a funeral plan. I thought I'd feel better and it would put my mi...

Administrator•4 months ago

About my Mum, this is the very first time I've dreamt of her and it disturbed me strangely enough. I have always hoped I would dream of Mum or Dad but ........

I woke this morning after having a dream...

About my Mum, this is the very first time I've dreamt of her and it disturbed me...

As you did before your loss or have they disappeared? I've found that they quickly lost interest for whatever reason, maybe they don't know what to say or...

Administrator•4 months ago

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Do you still have the same friends....

As you did before your loss or have they disappeared? I've found that they quic...

recently advertised 'No service/non attendance funerals', They are hugely cheaper than traditional funerals. I'm pretty sure that is what I am going to do,...

Administrator•4 months ago

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What is your opinion on the......

recently advertised 'No service/non attendance funerals', They are hugely cheape...