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I’m in a very sad situation where three very close friends have been diagnosed with terminal cancer. I’m finding it really difficult to know what to say, how...

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I’m in a very sad situation where three very close friends have been diagnosed w...

not many people on here of late. Is everyone ok?

•25 days ago

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where is everyone?

I was at a get together for my lifelong friend yesterday. He chose not to have a funeral. I don’t know what to make of it really. There were no nice words or...

•29 days ago

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memorial

I was at a get together for my lifelong friend yesterday. He chose not to have a...

•1 month ago

my dad passed away last month. He battled cancer for 7 years. I am peaceful most of the time ...but I feel as though I "forget" sometimes. For example ...I...

hi all

my dad passed away last month. He battled cancer for 7 years. I am peaceful most...

ellie2211

•1 month ago

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Still can't go anywhere

It has only been a year and a half for me. I'm really struggling with grief/ love/anger... My late husband was an addict and a narcissist. He used my very...

It has only been a year and a half for me. I'm really struggling with grief/ lov...

Cpearl

•1 month ago

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Topic suggestions for discussion please

Please let me know if there are any particular topics you'd like me to look into and for discussion on the Forum, thank you. Chloe

Please let me know if there are any particular topics you'd like me to look in...

Many of us can't seem to manage a good nights rest. What do you do if you can't sleep, listen to the radio or get up and do something perhaps? Chloe x

Administrator•2 months ago

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Do you sleep well?

Many of us can't seem to manage a good nights rest. What do you do if you can't...

I'm here for you friends. Chloe

Administrator•2 months ago

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Is this a good day or bad day for you?

It may help to share your memories of Valentines day with us x Chloe x

Administrator•2 months ago

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Today may be an especially difficult day for some

Administrator•2 months ago

I lost my grandad who was my last grandparent last week. He was my father figure as my dad was on and off present in my childhood. I’m so lost and upset and I...

loss of last grandparent

I lost my grandad who was my last grandparent last week. He was my father figure...

Bolt21

•2 months ago

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Do you ever grieve for yourself?

I do! I grieve for the loss of independence, my friends who disappeared when I was poorly, even my family relationships that are no longer the same. It...

I do! I grieve for the loss of independence, my friends who disappeared when I...

Grief is realising you are to blame for the tissue stuck to washed clothes Grief is knowing you are now responsible for keeping mugs clean Grief is...

Administrator•2 months ago

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read this & thought I’d share.

Grief is realising you are to blame for the tissue stuck to washed clothes Gr...

Hi everyone, I do hope you're managing x There are lots of illnesses around right now and I hope you're not affected, sending love. Chloe

•2 months ago

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Do we have any birthdays /Anniversaries this coming week?

Hi everyone, I do hope you're managing x There are lots of illnesses around ri...

take up a new hobby and has it helped you manage your grief? Chloe

Administrator•2 months ago

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Has anyone decided to take an evening class or..

We'd love to hear from you, so please drop into our friendly forum and say hello. Chloe

Administrator•3 months ago

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Welcome to all our new members

We'd love to hear from you, so please drop into our friendly forum and say hello...

It has been a difficult year. Not only did my mum die I have had a health scare. I have suffered with health anxiety. This cold Winter has also taken its toll....

Administrator•3 months ago

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Rough year.

It has been a difficult year. Not only did my mum die I have had a health scare....

Cmbs

•3 months ago

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How are you really feeling, now that the festive period is over?

It feels really weird right now, the dark wet, and [snowy day] seems to have had a strange almost eerie effect. It would be easy to go back to bed, but now...

It feels really weird right now, the dark wet, and [snowy day] seems to have had...

Was it truly hard for you? Chloe

Administrator•3 months ago

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How did you get through the holiday period

Hope everyone has a beautiful day!

Administrator•3 months ago

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Merry Christmas!

Cpearl

•3 months ago

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Bereavement Care & Share send....

Seasons greetings to you all. I wish you all a peaceful, healthy New Year. Thank you all for taking the trouble to post in our Community. Chloe

Seasons greetings to you all. I wish you all a peaceful, healthy New Year. Tha...

So, during this time, I try to celebrate those I love and have lost. I'll be keeping my candle alight every day and evening too, it will be next to photos...

Administrator•4 months ago

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Holiday times are often even harder for those grieving.

So, during this time, I try to celebrate those I love and have lost. I'll be ke...

What little something gives you a small lift and respite from your thoughts. Chloe

Administrator•4 months ago

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When all around you is miserable and you're grieving....

What little something gives you a small lift and respite from your thoughts. ...

Administrator•4 months ago

Today, I went to a children Christmas Carol concert. It was so uplifting, the effort of the little ones warms the heart and lifts the spirit, and I felt so...

A little upliftment goes a long way

Today, I went to a children Christmas Carol concert. It was so uplifting, the e...

Administrator•4 months ago

Today I lost my control again. Somebody texted me this morning using an explanation point (how my sister did before she died) and I thought I was ok, but I...

I can't ask for help, and it's been a bad day.

Today I lost my control again. Somebody texted me this morning using an explanat...

Kimmy14263

•4 months ago

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My friend decided it was time to go.

A forty-five-year-old person should see a better road ahead than focusing on the torn-up one behind. But this is what Kam chose to do. He couldn't see forward...

A forty-five-year-old person should see a better road ahead than focusing on the...

Senior4merEverything

•4 months ago

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Does the quietness make loss so much more difficult to bear or perhaps you don't mind this?

Personally, I like the quiet but I can understand others would find this difficult to cope with. I also understand that memories tend to flood the mind when...

Personally, I like the quiet but I can understand others would find this difficu...