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Just type your post up in the main box. Just below the box is 'Share ' just click 'Community only' and then post as usual. Chloe

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chloe40

Administrator•21 hours ago

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my sister.

I went to the crematorium today to visit where my sisters ashes were scattered. I have a bench there for my daughter even though her ashes aren’t there. It had...

I went to the crematorium today to visit where my sisters ashes were scattered. ...

Caza

•5 days ago

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I don’t want to go to my dads funeral

seeing the celebrant at 2 this afternoon. My sister is picking me up as she knows I won’t be there otherwise. Meeting at mums. We’ve talked about the music and...

seeing the celebrant at 2 this afternoon. My sister is picking me up as she know...

Bingofox007

•12 days ago

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How's everyday life for you at the moment?

It's seems to me to be a very odd time, maybe it's because the days are dark and the evenings are upon us early, whatever it is, I'm don't care for it much....

It's seems to me to be a very odd time, maybe it's because the days are dark and...

chloe40

Administrator•14 days ago

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Mum's passing

It has been over five months since mum died. I am reminded of mum an dad (who also died) every day. It is not easy. I'm not sure I will get over it.🙁😞😣🫤

It has been over five months since mum died. I am reminded of mum an dad (who al...

Cmbs

•21 days ago

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Many of us have had health issues since our loss….

How has yours been after a period of time, has it improved? Chloe

chloe40

Administrator•24 days ago

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Plucking at bedclothes

it’s 4am, been sitting her with my dad, hes88, ambulance left about half 1. Mum called them because he’s not feeling great and she was worried. He didn’t want...

it’s 4am, been sitting her with my dad, hes88, ambulance left about half 1. Mum ...

Bingofox007

•28 days ago

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Have you found that after...

Say 6months, people think you should be back to 'normal' and your grief has disappeared? Chloe

Say 6months, people think you should be back to 'normal' and your grief has disa...

chloe40

Administrator•1 month ago

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Do you feel you have more confidence in your life without your loved one now….

Than 6-12 months ago? Chloe

chloe40

Administrator•1 month ago

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Well the deed was completed !

I have bought a funeral plan. I thought I'd feel better and it would put my mind at rest but I've felt down and depressed, but I suppose it had to be done....

I have bought a funeral plan. I thought I'd feel better and it would put my mi...

chloe40

Administrator•2 months ago

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I woke this morning after having a dream...

About my Mum, this is the very first time I've dreamt of her and it disturbed me strangely enough. I have always hoped I would dream of Mum or Dad but ........

About my Mum, this is the very first time I've dreamt of her and it disturbed me...

chloe40

Administrator•2 months ago

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Do you still have the same friends....

As you did before your loss or have they disappeared? I've found that they quickly lost interest for whatever reason, maybe they don't know what to say or...

As you did before your loss or have they disappeared? I've found that they quic...

chloe40

Administrator•2 months ago

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What is your opinion on the......

recently advertised 'No service/non attendance funerals', They are hugely cheaper than traditional funerals. I'm pretty sure that is what I am going to do,...

recently advertised 'No service/non attendance funerals', They are hugely cheape...

chloe40

Administrator•2 months ago

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It hasn't become easier, yet!

I've suffered a great loss. My wife died. No, she didn't pass away, she died! I've been struggling to find a footing, but I think I'm pushing the cart in...

I've suffered a great loss. My wife died. No, she didn't pass away, she died! ...

Senior4merEverything

•3 months ago

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Following on from.....

CL3V3R-G1RL post, I am going to write as much of the life of my loved one as I can remember, this will be really therapeutic and a great project for...

CL3V3R-G1RL post, I am going to write as much of the life of my loved one as I ...

chloe40

Administrator•3 months ago

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There's a definite chill in the air and it brings with it........

Memories of loved ones I hadn't thought about for long time. Do certain situations do the same for you? Chloe

Memories of loved ones I hadn't thought about for long time. Do certain situa...

chloe40

Administrator•3 months ago

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James Bernard

I would love to give a big, big, hug to my brave, patient and long suffering husband, who appreciated all that was done for him over the eight years that he...

I would love to give a big, big, hug to my brave, patient and long suffering hus...

Robbo1

•3 months ago

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Who would you like to send love and wishes to?

I'd love to send my Dad a huge hug and let him know he's in my thoughts often x Chloe

I'd love to send my Dad a huge hug and let him know he's in my thoughts often x...

chloe40

Administrator•3 months ago

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If you planted a shrub or tree in memory of your loved one.....

Is it thriving? If you didn't, perhaps it's something to think about as autumn approaches x I planted hydrangea and it's growing well and lots of flowers...

Is it thriving? If you didn't, perhaps it's something to think about as autumn ...

chloe40

Administrator•3 months ago

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Hi everyone - what have you done that makes you feel good this weekend?

I've relaxed, which is unusual ! Not cooked in this hot weather ! and actually stayed cool, so, I doing okay this weekend. What about you?

I've relaxed, which is unusual ! Not cooked in this hot weather ! and actually...

chloe40

Administrator•3 months ago

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No Chance To Process

Hi all, The last year has been horrible for me, It all started June 6th 2023 when a good friend died all of a sudden, before I could even process and start...

Hi all, The last year has been horrible for me, It all started June 6th 2023 whe...

mozziesmom

•4 months ago

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How's your day going?

It's so hot it's hard to find the energy to do too much, so I'm relaxing and just trying to keep cool. What are you doing today? x

It's so hot it's hard to find the energy to do too much, so I'm relaxing and jus...

chloe40

Administrator•4 months ago

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scattering ashes

I was hoping that my ashes would be mixed with my daughters & then scattered but I know longer trust those left behind to carry out my wishes. So I’m thinking...

I was hoping that my ashes would be mixed with my daughters & then scattered but...

Caza

•4 months ago

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What is your favourite memory of your loved one?

My most loved memory is singing together at family get togethers and a song comes on the radio that we sang, it brings back so many happy days. x

My most loved memory is singing together at family get togethers and a song come...

chloe40

Administrator•4 months ago

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Eating well is so important but .....

Our appetite is one of the first things to change after a close loss. Would you say your appetite is better now, assuming it has been sometime since you lost...

Our appetite is one of the first things to change after a close loss. Would you...

chloe40

Administrator•4 months ago

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Thank you everyone

chloe40

Administrator•4 months ago

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I'm compiling a list of wise words to cope with grief...

Which we will keep pinned for all to read. Please contribute, one sentence or several, it is up to you, then click Add topic at the bottom of the page...

Which we will keep pinned for all to read. Please contribute, one sentence or ...

chloe40

Administrator•4 months ago

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Does your routine change over the weekend or...

do you continue to carry on as 'normal' whatever that may be. Life naturally changes after a close loss but I tend to stick with what was rather than what...

do you continue to carry on as 'normal' whatever that may be. Life naturally ...

chloe40

Administrator•4 months ago

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How are you all dear friends?

It's been such a miserable week weather wise in the UK, that it really can affect our mood. If you're grieving too, then that makes it so much worse or does it...

It's been such a miserable week weather wise in the UK, that it really can affec...

chloe40

Administrator•5 months ago

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Letters to My Husband

Hi Everyone, I just wanted to share something with everyone. A few weeks ago I saw this online at a site which was selling them. So I thought I would give...

Hi Everyone, I just wanted to share something with everyone. A few weeks ago...

Cpearl

•5 months ago

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How to lock your posts to ensure they remain private

my sister.

I don’t want to go to my dads funeral

How's everyday life for you at the moment?

Mum's passing

Many of us have had health issues since our loss….

Plucking at bedclothes

Have you found that after...

Do you feel you have more confidence in your life without your loved one now….

Well the deed was completed !

I woke this morning after having a dream...

Do you still have the same friends....

What is your opinion on the......

It hasn't become easier, yet!

Following on from.....

There's a definite chill in the air and it brings with it........

James Bernard

Who would you like to send love and wishes to?

If you planted a shrub or tree in memory of your loved one.....

Hi everyone - what have you done that makes you feel good this weekend?

No Chance To Process

How's your day going?

scattering ashes

What is your favourite memory of your loved one?

Eating well is so important but .....

Please be assured the previous member has been contacted, therefore their post is now closed.

I'm compiling a list of wise words to cope with grief...

Does your routine change over the weekend or...

How are you all dear friends?

Letters to My Husband

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