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Bereavement Care & Share

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All posts for February 2023

My Grandpa passed a month ago

Hi one of the members on my other group suggested this group. My Grandpa was an amazing person to me. He didn't want to leave us but the cancer got really bad...

Hi one of the members on my other group suggested this group. My Grandpa was an ...

Iris72

•2 years ago

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My Dad

My Dad passed away last Sunday. A drunk driver hit him on his way to work. He was my everything my idol my hero. Anything you could ever wish for in a Dad....

My Dad passed away last Sunday. A drunk driver hit him on his way to work. He wa...

10manuel1

•2 years ago

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Should we return to work so soon after a loss?

I would suddenly sob out of the blue in the weeks after my Dad died and this could have had consequences. My employers were pretty understanding but I did...

I would suddenly sob out of the blue in the weeks after my Dad died and this cou...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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How's your concentration since your loss?

I noticed mine was very poor for a long time, couldn't seem to concentrate on anything much, from reading, tv or even speaking at times. Anyone else had this...

I noticed mine was very poor for a long time, couldn't seem to concentrate on an...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

13 Replies

Please note Quiz may be a possible trigger

I'd rather you didn't comment on questions if this may upset you.😘 Chloe

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Asking for help is Okay

Remember, although it may make us feel vulnerable, there is nothing wrong with asking for help. In fact, even if you find that counselling is not necessary,...

Remember, although it may make us feel vulnerable, there is nothing wrong with...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Did you have a complicated relationship with the family member who passed?

Life is messy, and we don’t always get along with our loved ones due to differences in beliefs, life choices or spouses, despite our best efforts. When you...

Life is messy, and we don’t always get along with our loved ones due to differ...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Are you experiencing sudden changes in behaviour?

As you experience grief, it is normal to have some changes in mood, but if you find that you are acting in ways that feel entirely unfamiliar, this may be...

As you experience grief, it is normal to have some changes in mood, but if you...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Are you experiencing sudden changes in behaviour?

As you experience grief, it is normal to have some changes in mood, but if you find that you are acting in ways that feel entirely unfamiliar, this may be...

As you experience grief, it is normal to have some changes in mood, but if you...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Are normal activities a challenge?

If you are unable to eat, sleep or participate in work/school, this is a clear sign that you need a bit of help with coping. Trouble falling asleep or...

If you are unable to eat, sleep or participate in work/school, this is a clear...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Are you keeping busier to escape your feelings?

While this is an extremely common way of dealing with loss, staying busy to avoid feeling sad is not a good long-term solution. Eventually, you will need to...

While this is an extremely common way of dealing with loss, staying busy to av...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

1 Reply

Do you have a fear of forming relationships?

Apprehension of new relationships due to the fear of loss is extremely common in cases of severe grieving, but of course this is something you should be wary...

Apprehension of new relationships due to the fear of loss is extremely common ...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Has all enjoyment left your life?

Your life does not stop in the face of grief. You are still you. You still have your interests and goals. If your grief is preventing you from pursuing...

Your life does not stop in the face of grief. You are still you. You still hav...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Are you avoiding time with family and friends?

Sometimes we need to be alone to process our grief, but if this feeling persists and you find yourself avoiding spending time with your loved ones, consider...

Sometimes we need to be alone to process our grief, but if this feeling persists...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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DO I NEED GRIEF COUNSELLING QUIZ? Possible trigger alert

Do any apply to you? Please do post, I am adding comments as we are all on different time zones, Thank you all. How do you know when you need help with...

Do any apply to you? Please do post, I am adding comments as we are all on diffe...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

4 Replies

Grief quiz

Good Morning everyone, Just to let you know I will be posting a short quiz later today, if you can spare the time, do drop in and reply to each question...

Good Morning everyone, Just to let you know I will be posting a short quiz late...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Lost my Dad Suddenly to Heart Attack

Hi, I lost my Dad very suddenly in December. He was 75. He had a previous heart attack and AF so that’s what they put it down too. He was on medication for...

Hi, I lost my Dad very suddenly in December. He was 75. He had a previous hear...

lkamin

•2 years ago

7 Replies

Lost my father

Hello, My Dad (83) went to hospital last Thursday with difficulty breathing. It got worse and worse and he passed away yesterday. It was horrible, beyond....

Hello, My Dad (83) went to hospital last Thursday with difficulty breathing. I...

Hidden

•2 years ago

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Remembrance Garden

I thought it would a nice Topic to share the names and some pics of the garden flowers and shrubs we've planted in our gardens or in pots, in remembrance of...

I thought it would a nice Topic to share the names and some pics of the garden ...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Are you thinking about Spring and visiting the Cemetery

And flowers too of course? I am so looking forward to being able to place new plants and flowers on my parents place of rest. Now I have something to...

And flowers too of course? I am so looking forward to being able to place new ...

chloe40

Administrator•2 years ago

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Posts - Bereavement Care & Share | HealthUnlocked

Bereavement Care & Share

All posts for February 2023

My Grandpa passed a month ago

My Dad

Should we return to work so soon after a loss?

How's your concentration since your loss?

Please note Quiz may be a possible trigger

Asking for help is Okay

Did you have a complicated relationship with the family member who passed?

Are you experiencing sudden changes in behaviour?

Are you experiencing sudden changes in behaviour?

Are normal activities a challenge?

Are you keeping busier to escape your feelings?

Do you have a fear of forming relationships?

Has all enjoyment left your life?

Are you avoiding time with family and friends?

DO I NEED GRIEF COUNSELLING QUIZ? Possible trigger alert

Grief quiz

Lost my Dad Suddenly to Heart Attack

Lost my father

Remembrance Garden

Are you thinking about Spring and visiting the Cemetery

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If you knew of someone in your road who had lost a member of their family, what would you do?

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Posts - Bereavement Care & Share | HealthUnlocked

Bereavement Care & Share

All posts for February 2023

My Grandpa passed a month ago

My Dad

Should we return to work so soon after a loss?

How's your concentration since your loss?

Please note Quiz may be a possible **trigger**

Asking for help is Okay

Did you have a complicated relationship with the family member who passed?

Are you experiencing sudden changes in behaviour?

Are you experiencing sudden changes in behaviour?

Are normal activities a challenge?

Are you keeping busier to escape your feelings?

Do you have a fear of forming relationships?

Has all enjoyment left your life?

Are you avoiding time with family and friends?

DO I NEED GRIEF COUNSELLING QUIZ? Possible **trigger alert**

Grief quiz

Lost my Dad Suddenly to Heart Attack

Lost my father

Remembrance Garden

Are you thinking about Spring and visiting the Cemetery

Search posts

Pinned Posts

Latest poll

If you knew of someone in your road who had lost a member of their family, what would you do?

Topics

Archive

Please note Quiz may be a possible trigger

DO I NEED GRIEF COUNSELLING QUIZ? Possible trigger alert