Hi I am new to the Anxiety support and I really hope someone reads this message who can help me
I don't know how to cope with my anxiety panic and crying at the moment. I don't normally talk about my personal life but I have a daughter in law who since meeting my son 6 years ago has made my life miserable. She has been determined to get our son out of our lives and into her and just her families life. I have been a good mum my sons have had a lovely loving family life and we have always been really close. My daughter-in-law is so deviously clever! on the outside most people see her as a bubbly helpfully friendly woman and behind her she has parents who have spoiled her rotten buying her for example a flat a house a car and she carries their credit card around with her and buys what ever she wants on it. They r not overly wealthy people butMy son is taken in with all the materialistic life they lead and he is very happy. He is brain washed and controlled by his wife and I know he loves her. myself and my husband have to tread on eggshells round her just so we can see our son.
He has had a big fall out with my other son and his wife because of her and now they don't speak so she succeeded there and now they have a baby son my grandson and we hardly ever see him. I am always offering to babysit but they just tell me he is being looked after by his other grandparents. When I approached my son about this he said they haven't time in their busy lives to see us often so I told him he always has plenty of time to socialise with his wife's family always going away with them and entertaining them. and I said he was being controlled by his wife, he told her what I said we had a big argument and I was threatened that if I didn't apologise to her I would never see my grandson again. I can't believe he has been brainwashed by this woman and he can't see what she has done. I love him so much and know how lovely he used to be such a beautiful family lad but I am so disappointed in him. It has now got to the stage where I think I will lose him for good. I am so sick of trying to keep the peace so as not to lose him. This is why I have started having panic attacks and crying constantly. If anyone can offer any help and advise i would be so grateful. P.S. I have a super relationship with my other son and we see their baby daughter regularly which has been a lifesaver for me.
My health isn't that good
I was diagnosed with PBC in January 2015 after years of seeing different specialists with numerous bruising, rashes, itching, fatigue, aches and pains in my joints. I was put on urso and I am seen every 6 months for blood tests.
I feel I have deteriorated physically and definitely (Mentally) since the upset with my youngest son.