Joined this forum tonight as I have concerns over my husband and I'm not sure what my next port of call is.
Last night, totally out of the blue he had an irrational outburst, he was so angry because he couldn't find a set of keys. Everything then poured out, every one sniggers behind his back (!!), no one helps him (!!) our 8 year old daughter treats him like dirt (!!), no one has any respect for anything that belongs to him (!!). He sayshe couldn't care less if he woke up in the mornings, wishes he was dead, but it was the anger that was coming out that upset me most
I think the beginning was this time last year when a gold chain went missing, bought for his 40th by his mother. He swears he knew where it was yet the previous 9 years he has worn it to work (he has a heavy factory job) left it in a plastic bag in a cupboard after it had broken, so he really hasnt looked after it. And now he cant find it we are all guilty. He keeps questioning our daughter if she knows where it is (she doesnt). So in the last year he has lost his chain, a hammer (dont even go there), the kitchen knife sharpener and a lead lamp that he uses. Everything has been found...exactly where he put it after weeks of fussing over them apart from the chain.
Like I say totally irrational but it really upset me, I have enough on my plate looking after a elderly mother, handicapped son and then the rest of the family and house. He is refusing to see the Dr although I have made an appointment.