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Kissing the cold Good-bye

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So beginning of last month I lost my baby and I learned being cold to everyone because of it is not the way it should be. Not everyone is out to hurt me. I love so hard and get hurt even harder. I love to be someones world one day but, being cold to everyone is not the answer in life. So, from now on I'm going to stop being cold and be who I am and if someone don't like the fact that I love to cuddle, kiss, dance, sleep in what makes me comfy or do what I love. Then they know where the door is I'm not changing who I am for someone else again. I'm going to go back to working on my self love album again and I'm going to keep loving myself even if someone hates it. So good-bye cold and welcome love and warmth.

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hypercat54

I am so sorry you lost your baby and that must have been devastating.

Good for you though, being your true authentic self is the only way to live so stuff anyone who doesn't like it as they are the losers not you. Live your life and be the best version of yourself you can be and you are enough so always remember that. x.

****TRIGGER WARNING*** Post is about child loss..

I just want to ((hug)) you. Please know I care so much.

We lost our 2nd daughter at birth. Past full term, doctor error..long story.

Suffice it to say; I've never felt anything like that and it was a long road back to normal? life.

She would be 30 this year:) I know she's waiting for us in Heaven.

I send you the most love and kindness..from one hurting mom to another.

I'm proud of your decision to just be YOU!!

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kenster1

sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you but admire you for how your viewing the situation.child loss is the hardest thing anyone could ever go through.

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