Losing my best friend .

[Lulu999]

I lost my best friend because of a my fault, She is not talking to me now, If I messaged,reply is coming after two three days, If I excuse for the word that I told, she again scold me that saying do not arouse past things, she not talking to a present matters too, what should I do to rebuild my friendship, I m ina serious mental and physical condition, please help me out?

[Hidden]

I'm not sure what to do exactly but one thing I think could be a good first step is giving them some space for a couple or a few days depending on what happened/how mad they are. After that, I would try a calm approach with an apology and taking full blame. Hopefully that'll do it or at least help. Going on from there, I'd just kinda ease back in with fun conversations about nothing serious or controversial.

Then again, this is simply what I'd do and your relationship may differ. HIH a little! 🙂

[Lulu999 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for your reply, It is been 3months now, I m afraid that I couldnt fix like before, I tried giving some spaces but didnt work....

[Hidden in reply to Lulu999]

Is there anything in particular you think could do to prove your sorry-ness? Or that you've changed? Cuz if you think you've tried everything and they still feel the same as before, I hate to say it but sometimes certain things can't be fixed. I really hope this is fixable though and wish you the best!

[Lulu999 in reply to Hidden]

This month end, its her birthday, I hope to send a card, not mentioning past things,

[Lulu999 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks krustykrabpizza for your wish !

[blackcat64013]

You can't change the other persons behaviour. The way you think about the situation counts more. If you think it would help, you can send a personal hand written note rather than texting which is a touch impersonal. Depending on C-19 restrictions, you can plan a visit or send an apology with a small gift e.g chocolates / flowers. Being patient and allowing your friend to move on from the hurt is important. In the end, the friendship can go one of two ways - resume in possibly a slightly different way or it will end which would be a shame for you. Hopefully it will be the former for you

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Lulu

You do not explain the problem and the problem of the past. You have tried to talk Her around and that did not work.

You may need to expect this is the end of the Relationship, moving on sounds like the best way forward. The whole thing sounds so sad for you. Allow her to call you however it may be over and just move on. As the whole problem was about three months ago. It does sound all over. SORRY

One way send that Birthday Card, that may soften the conflict between you.

BOB