Hi everyone!
I just stumbled across this website again and thought it may be a good place to seek advice from others who may have gone through similar events.
So my story is a bit of an odd one. I’m 29 years old and I had always had heavier periods that were more on the painful side. But I was able to manage it with taking a hell of a lot of OTC pain meds every 4 hours on days 1-3 while needing a hot water bottle as well from time to time. I thought this was normal and compared to others suffering with chronic pain I probably am very lucky.
I wouldn’t say I was completely asymptomatic - I had issues with constipation, food intolerances, UTIs occurring after penetrative sex but nothing pointing directly to endometriosis and none of the doctors seemed to make the connection either until 2018. This was when CRP levels came up as high in a blood test and my GP thought it could be an indication of Ovarian cancer so I was fast tracked to have an internal ultrasound which detected that my left ovary was kinda stuck to the wall which pointed to endometriosis (and thankfully not cancer) but I was advised that it’s probably mild and as it wasn’t bothering me that much then I just kind of left it.
Fast forward to March 2023. I fall down some stairs during a night out and break my ankle (this detail will become relevant later). So I’m in a cast and put on crutches. Then 4 days later after this fall I start having the most intense abdominal pain to the point where I was almost screaming. No period pain to date could have prepared me for that pain. But at this point I am absolutely clueless as I wasn’t due on my period at the time so didn’t really know why I was suddenly having these pains.
I go to a&e, they do the routine tests - urine and bloods and notice that I have a raised white blood cell count and CRP levels. The details then clicked in my mind and I told them this could be related to endometriosis. At first they seemed a bit dismissive and were more concerned it could be appendicitis but I had an ultrasound which pointed more to endo at which point it felt like the docs in a&e started to care less and handed me over to the gynaecology dept.
The first gynae doctor I saw in a&e took a look and basically gave me some spiel about going on the pill and keeping me in for a night to observe me and then come up with a plan for pain management (at this point they put me on codeine and oramorphe so I was a bit confused how just relying on that was going to go in the long term) but I went with it and stayed the night.
The next day was a bit of a shock to the system as the docs seemed to do a full 180 on the plan when the gynae consultant came on board and told me that they would need to perform emergency surgery in the next 2 hours- at the very minimum a laparoscopy, or at the other end of the spectrum, a full blown oophorectomy and open surgery. They asked me if I wanted kids in the future (I don’t really want them but feel like that’s beside the point when you’re suddenly talking about taking away a part of my reproductive organs away at 29) but anyway I didn't have much choice at that point so I signed the consent form and off I went.
Thankfully the surgery was as successful as it could have been. I'm pleased to report that my ovaries are all intact (woo!) but they did find 2 massive 5cm cysts on my ovaries (one of which had ruptured filled with endometriotic fluid which caused the sudden pain) and stage 4 endometriosis which had not only spread to the nearby organs in the pelvic area but has also reached up to my diaphragm and chest wall (how fun). I think during the surgery the focus was on the ovaries and uterus and they removed what they could here (as well as the bowel) but I'll need another surgery which they'll be able to do in 6 months.
In the meantime I've been put on Zoladex 3.6mg to stop any further growth. Out of this whole ordeal this drug is what's causing the most anxiety as the side effects seem HORRENDOUS and I dont have a good track record mentally with hormonal drugs. I've had one injection so far which admittedly hasn't been too bad (I'm due for my next injection soon).
I'm also currently having a CT scan and MRI and my next appointment is with an endometriosis specialist apparently in July I think.
So as I come to the end of my tale I just wanted to see if anyone had any advice on this situation. I'm concerned about any effect Zoladex may have on my broken ankle recovery as well as other more superficial aspects (does it have any effect on the aging of the skin?) I'm currently taking a number of supplements to counteract its effects inc vit D. Do you have any others you would recommend? Would you also recommend asking for HRT or does that sort of defeat the whole object? Should I even bother taking Zoladex? I enjoy having an active sex life so I'm a bit bummed out about the effects of going into medical menopause soooo young
To add even more madness to the mix despite going through all this and also not being to walk yet, I've started a new job. They've thankfully been really supportive and I also get private health insurance. Does anyone recommend switching from NHS to private? (I wasn't sure if it was worth it given my treatment is in progress and if I was even able to as it would be classed as a pre-existing condition now).
In terms of thinking more longer term has anyone had any luck using diet in trying to control this? I was also thinking about getting the mirena coil put in after all the surgeries are done to try and control it. Has anyone had any success with this?
But yeah literally any advice would be useful!
Also apologies for the monster essay! I wasn't sure what I was planning on writing but it ended up being my entire lifestory lol
TLDR: Recently been diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis despite having fairly mild symptoms after a cyst ruptured. Endo has spread to my diaphragm. I will need another laparoscopy and the next availability is in 6 months time. I have been put on Zoladex until then. Any advice on zoladex and long term management to prevent growth would be appreciated!
Thank you!!!