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Are you avoiding time with family and friends?

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Sometimes we need to be alone to process our grief, but if this feeling persists and you find yourself avoiding spending time with your loved ones, consider why.

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I`m not the best at socialising but I do enjoy getting out with friends.

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Caza

this is a difficult question to answer. There’s sometimes when I avoid both family & friends & there are times when I see them but hate being there & I’ll suffer later on for making myself go. & there are times when I love there company.

I tend now to stand back & watch rather than be in the middle. I always have an escape route planned.

There’s a saying that struck me as so true. I’m never less alone than when I’m on my own. I guess this is what I feel when I see ‘complete’ families. Although I know that no family are without problems but thats how it feels sometimes.

I think with me its seeing people for short bursts that I can walk away from if I need to.

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Caza

I totally get this Caza

I rarely socialise myself now, sad I know

Sending hugs

Chloe x

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