Lost my Dad Suddenly to Heart Attack

[lkamin]

Hi, I lost my Dad very suddenly in December. He was 75. He had a previous heart attack and AF so that’s what they put it down too. He was on medication for this. Im struggling with the suddenness of him going, he was doing normal activities during the morning, Mum came home and found him sitting on the floor against the wall, he was already gone. Keep wondering if he suffered or went very quickly. He wasn’t near his mobile phone. So sad as he didn’t have any warning before. We are all so devastated.

[Dolphin14]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a sister die suddenly of a cardiac issue. She was 60.

I've experienced quite a few deaths of family members. The sudden death was a tough one. When our loved one is doing well it's very difficult to wrap our heads around what might have happened.

Please take care of you. Let your feelings out and take all the time you need to grieve

🐬

[lkamin in reply to Dolphin14]

thank you

[Dolphin14 in reply to lkamin]

❤️❤️

[Bingofox007]

sending you a virtual hug. I am so sorry to read of your loss snd the torment snd pain you are feeling. Everyone here snd around you are there for you snd your family. Speak with your local hospice, they have great bereavement support, doesn’t have to be after a death with hospice care. Take care of yourself snd each other 🦊

[chloe40 Administrator]

Hello lkamin

A very warm welcome to our Community.

I'm truly sorry for the loss of your dear Dad.

It is always a shock to us when we loose a loved one, whether we're anticipating it or a sudden loss {{{hugs}}} nothing prepares us, and of course you all feel devastated.

Your emotions must be all over the place and this is to be expected, and it's early days for you all.

You are always welcome here, so please do lean on us whenever you wish.

Chloe

[lkamin]

thank you

[kenster1 Volunteer]

sorry to hear that thoughts and prayers to you and the family god bless and take care.