Well the ex text yesterday and said his mother said she only text that unforgiveable message cos she was frustrated and said to say sorry,,,,,,,,,,,,
When will this guy ever wise up to his narcisstic mother............
Ah shes said sorry so that makes everything ok.............
Ok I'll pack my bags and be right back on your doorstep......... I DONT THINK SO.............
HOpe everyone else is having an ok weekend............
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Has it not swayed you a little bit?
Id be lieing if I didnt say that I romaticised for a while about how lovely it would be to go back to normal.............. but her saying sorry for texting a nasty message 3 days after we'd split up doesnt change how she treat me for nearly a year............. thats not gona change............
And whats worse is stephen doesnt believe what shes like............ so a 'sorry' message doesnt change anything!!
too little too late............
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That was exactly my thought anne when I read your blog " to little to late "
Personally , I don't think it would change
You have done so well
Love
whywhy
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Youre perfectly right.............at one time in my life I prob would have caved in, but not any more...........
Thanks for keeping me strong.......
Hope youre doing ok??
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she didnt even say sorry herself. that happened with my boyfriends mum she told him to tell me sorry when she made aride commemt about my mum. i fndtat so cowardly to pass it on cos they feel so ashamed they cant do it themselfs!!!!!!!!! your better off and you know that now. good luck to you anne and keep pinking that elastic band everytime it crosses your time that you might need him.x
thank you........yes I have a big red mark around my wrist.............. shame its not around his mothers neck!! lol only joking, thats nasty!!
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Hi anne
I'd stay strong, if thats the best your going to get in that relationship, maybe its best to move on and find yourself a fella that will put you first.
Wish you well, and hope you are having a good day.
B
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Thank you............ I do feel pretty strong and I think I deserve better than that or at least I can be happier on my own........... lifes hard enough without toxic people like his mother making my life a misery..........
I hope youre good too.....
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my ex was the same with his mother, she was a spider woman wanting her sons but not the women oh and her grandchildren to herself
Hey you
Just read this. There is a lot of mind games going on with his family. Certainly not what you need. One min you get a txt that is a apology, and then a tx of nasty comments. You dont derserve all this. xx
I know Lou........ theyre mental..............
Id just posted on twitter a comment sayind'being single can be fun..........
thats all , cos I was going to pics with my mate........
this was linked to my facebook page, but Id blocked her but cos it was public didnt realise she could see it,,,,,,,,,,,
but for gods sake, do I really deserve that!!
Stephens gone out drinking with his mates..............
am I not allowed to go out then??
Be honest , do you think I being insensitive??
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No not at all. Your life is nothing to do with them. You live it how you want to live it. They have no right to interfere. Its the interference that has been one of the reasons of your break up. You have every right to feel angry. Its invasion of your space. They have jumped on the band wagon. it can be classed as harrassment. xx
Ive told him if they carry on Im going to see a solicitor and get letters sent cos its not on!!
Ive had no reply from him.......... She also messaged saying our relationship was bad and he did well to come out with some money and sanity,,,,,,,,,,,,, And he replied to that sayin at best it was very good and at worst it was good...........
It just head doing stuff!!
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She should have apologised to you and not to him to pass it on. Well that's if she did, he may have just done it as he felt bad for you. Stay strong Anne, you are doing so well. Xxx
That is a very good point on both things Cookie. Did she apologise???? No matter what the damage is done. You need to leave them in the past. Concentrate on you and you only. x
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