I wana stop thinking about my ex.......

Weekends are so hard, cant stop thinking 'he'll be doing...................'

I totally know Ive done the right thing, cant live with witch that is the mother, and angry and lost a little respect for the ex that he could let his mother rule his life.....

SORRY EVERYONE I KNOW IM DRONING ON BUT I HAVE TO GET IT OUT, I THINK MY FAMILY ARE SICK OF HEARING ME...LOL

I just feel stuck in the moment.... I need to get a job, my son ringing and speaking to my mum i see is a good thing now, but that has dragged feelingings up.... What do I do when he wants to speak to me, Do i do anything for him to be back in my life, or do I say theres two sides to every story and Im not having him treating me like his dad did, cos thats what it feels like.....

Too many decisions ...... feeling anxious with it all......

Help..........

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Elastic band ...where is it , get it on & get pinging ..ouch is it taking away the pain

I no it will all seem very painful , but believe me that was a positive , he is making contact even though its your mum , & he isn't daft , he will no that you were there or would have been told , so that says to me he is thinking about you

The other male , will be with his mummy , so sure you wouldn't want to be there

Ping on that band

I no we will get a blog one day & this will have all been your past , & your future will be full of love , the kind you deserve

Love

whywhy

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thanks whywhy..... I feel such a winge bag at the minute.....And I know Im saying the same things so I do apologise...... but I thank you for being patient............

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whywhy I had to tell you cos IM so excited,,,, I have an interview on thurs for a job I applied for..... theyve just rang xx

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You are not a whinge bag , you have to say whats happening , wait till I start on these statins , that will be a bigger whinge

great NEWS anne , see something good , told you ,give these things time , I just no they eventually all fall into place , stay strong & whinge in the meantime

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Hi Ker I know you situation with your ex is different to mine, but I know how hard it is especially at the weekends not to think about them. From what you've told me its sounds like you ending it was the best thing you could do for you. So you just need to stay strong and vent on here whenever you need to. Your not whining

As for the situation with your son it's defiantly a good thing he has made contact with your mum. I can't imagine how hard it is for you not speaking to him. I'm sure he will get in touch soon.

Good to hear about your interview. Try and use that as a reason to enjoy your weekend

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thanks will...... I know youre all perfectly right......

You get yourself spruced up and smelling gorgeous so she can see whats shes been missing!!

good luck

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I'll get the smelling nice bit all right migh struggle with the gorgeous part lol.

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Congratulations on the interview!! I just got back, glad I went, felt a bit lonely at times but ok, enjoyed a coffee and a little walk and enjoyed the short train journey,,,,

You will miss your ex but it's just a matter of time and it will be all behind you, but it does take time don't beat yourself up about it, it's all normal to miss,and want to talk about it,

I think with your son , he will find out for himself, and if you get to speak to him just let him know by what you say that you are around for him to talk to or go out for a coffe with, you are an intelligent person Anne, take one day at a time, you will get there, things will get better...there is a light at the end of that tunnel for us both I'm sure.

Would have loved a coffee with you and to chatter about it all

Let me know how tonight goes

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Good on ya for getting out.... I knew you would feel better...

thanks for your lovely words.......

And yes youre right, there is light at the end of the tunnel........

IM not drinking tonight and driving so I have my exit plan xx

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Think about it as a gathering to have a chat and it's better than sitting at home thinking about it all. Probably a good idea not to drink I think we both know it makes your emotions worse and highlights them...don't expect too much of yourself....you know what I'm great at telling others I need to practice what I bloody preach hahaha....thanks for before your comment helped me get dressed and go!!!

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were all the same...... its easy to see what should be done when its someone else... thats why its good to have people to tell you, cos sometimes we cant see the wood for the trees!!

Anyway Ive had my hair done and now Im going to attempt to make myself look glamourous.... could be a long job!!

Well done for today, I know how hard it is to do and would have been easier for you to stay in!! enjoy your film tonight and I'll catch up tomorow!! xx

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Thanks, at lest tonight you won't be alone, catch up with you tomorrow.

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Hi Anne

I was just wondering how you were getting on, only just popped on here.

Yeh weekends are the worse, but you are strong and it will ease. Small steps with your son. He has rung your mum, in time it will be you. We go through conversations in our heads of what would be said, what we would do. It doesnt work that way.

Great news about the job interview. Good luck with that. xxx

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Hi Lou, thanks for your lovely words..... how you doing this weekend?? Must be hard for you too??

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I have been working today. I am ok as i am in touch with him. I used to spend every weekend up there before his anxiety took over. If its meant to be for me to go back up there, then it will happen. Its a bit different for me as complicated as things are at the mo.

You are a lovely lady. You are stronger than me in many ways. I hold on, where as you let him go. That takes a lot. xx