Hiya, I'm new to this site and figured it would be a great way of talking to people with similar issues to me.
I'm single, and really struggling to find a positive relationship that doesn't drag me down and make me feel worthless. I'm going through therapy, which is my saving grace, I don't know where I'd be without it. But I can't hold down a relationship, and probably the worst thing is that I am so vulnerable to the wrong kind of people, especially guys. I get taken advantage of because I have such little confidence in myself, and find myself in situations that only confirm my feelings of worthlessness. I so so want to get out of this vicious cycle of meeting someone, liking them, growing feelings for them and then getting freaked out by the smallest thing.... I know that sounds silly but it's a massive deal to me if 'he' doesn't call or text when I think he should have or some other illogical situation I tend to dream up. The conclusion in my head is always the same... He isn't interested anyway, and even if he is, it's only for one thing! I should add that I am talking to my therapist about this stuff, but figured it would be nice to get opinions from others too, seeing as I don't tend to bear my true feelings to many people, doing it here, anonymously is a big step, but a safe one I feel! I would really appreciate any feedback from people out there..... Xx. Rather a long intro and first post but just need to get things off my chest
Thanks for reading xx