How can you feel positive when the OH's mum is telling you to move on, from the relationship.
Been quite positive about things today. Did my phone call to check all ok with my partners mum. She still isnt getting it. Told her she needs him to let him spend some time on his own for him to start moving on.
Then i got, you need to move on. You have done so much for him, but he will drag you down. If he is going to keep being like this its not gona do you any good". Its so frustrating.
I even used on here telling her how he is similar to everyone on here. Did she listen.............i dont think so. She kept telling me how he doesnt speak. He does with me, but even so it doesnt help the situation. My partner even mentioned about coming over on Saturday. His Mum is putting pressure on him to go see her. I even turned round and said if he would rather be on his own not to bother. I know he will be on a downer after he leaves his mums cos she will be nagging at him. I know he would rather go hide away.
Sorry for the rant. Drives me mad. Feel quite good about things. then a phone call can just shatter that. How the heck does he feel once he has spoken to her and he has anxiety