Well my other half's mum has rung him up last night and told him he needs to sort his life out. Now i am sure for all you dealing with anxiety, that does not help. It seems to have knocked him back. I am so bloody frustrated. Spoken to him today and he seems so low again. Seems to be questioning everything AGAIN!.
She spoke to me on the phone the other night saying he needs to get a grip. She does not grasp what it is like for him. She says he is man of the family and should be getting over the death of his friend. That was the final straw for him. Doesnt understand that it isnt just that.
He seems to be putting himself under pressure today.Saying all this isnt fair on me. He is just sooooo tired and just wants to sleep. His Mum is not giving him any let up at all. With her alzheimers you cant talk to her. Felt like ringing her today and saying give him a break. But it wouldnt help and i would be yelled at, then it would make him worse. Again i have told him not going anywhere. He needs space he will get the space.
Dont know what i can do but be there for him. One little thing just knocks him and then everything else seems 100 times worse for him. Is this common that one upset can cause one massive setback.
Frustrated Lou. xxx