Vivid violent dream

[Twenty2]

First of all, in real life my husband is a very nasty controlling narcissist man who has had countless affairs and has currently been seeing a young woman less than half his age. Last night I had this dream but it was a previous partner from more than 40 years ago in my dream . He wouldn’t come home with me after a night out and decided to go somewhere else with this young girl. I went to her house and absolutely trashed it, and his house. When he came back I beat him to a pulp. I then agreed to meet with her and her family to apologise to her children but dozens of people turned up. I spoke to him first and he was very forgiving and nice to me but her family were trying to harm me. I think this is probably what I would like to do to my husband and this dream may have been a way to get my anger out. What do you think

[TangledUpIn]

Hmmmmmmmmmm it sounds like it to me. In the past I have cheated on and been cheated on and either way it's a toxic situation. I realize it's complicated but is there any way to leave your husband 🤔

[Toddzen]

I am sorry to say this but this Relationship sounds very unhealthy. Your husband isn't committed to you and is a cheater. I don't know why you accept him sleeping with other Woman. Your unconscious is very Angry at the situation. Divorce would be a good idea. Good Luck.

[SCC1]

Hi. I've heard that sometimes when you are thinking of something going on in your life, that you either do or don't like, your dreams can represent those things. It's obvious that you are angry at your husband, and I think the dream is indicative of that. I think that your experience with your husband in general, is causing the dream, just as you have said.

It is a very toxic relationship. I agree with others, that it is not a good idea to stay with him. If you want to get away from him, even if you need help to do so, I think it would be a good idea.

No one should be treated that way. He is not respecting you and doesn't seem to care if he's hurting you.

I am sorry you are dealing with this. I had a controlling husband, also, who didn't treat me in the kindest way. It wasn't extreme, but it was enough to make me feel bad and actually hate him. So, when I read your post, it really hit home with me.

Please don't continue to take anymore of this crap.

Take care and do what's best for you.

xx

[designguy]

It sounds like your subconscious is trying to tell what you already know, that you need to leave your toxic husband and relationship.