False friendship

[Wyominganxiety]

So 6 yrs ago I connected with a person over our anxiety our families have done so much together always supported through the good and bad, this person is not working like myself but here lately things have started to show a different side he can get on a plane go places go out of town has no problems with public and people all the things we connected over but I have noticed he's getting papers from his therapist stating he can't work papers so he's not paying his child support, just feel he doesn't suffer with it he uses it and there for I feel kinda used....

[Hidden]

That's kinda confusing, I don't understand.

[Wyominganxiety in reply to Hidden]

What are you confused about?

[Hidden in reply to Wyominganxiety]

Nevermind I get it. Punctuation goes far, my dear I don't understand how he's using you, though.

[Wyominganxiety in reply to Hidden]

Just kinda feel like the friendship might have started off false feelings maybe, I don't know were still friends, but honesty goes a long way with me,.. and I kinda feel like I confided alot in him thinking he knew how it was but now not sure..

[Nicki1984]

Anxiety affects us all differently and at different times so I wouldn't look too much into it. Maybe he is having a better time at the moment and trying to make the most of it x

[Wyominganxiety in reply to Nicki1984]

Your right I'm sure I'm letting my mind play way to much into it.. just made me feel vulnerable I guess and I hate that!

[Nicki1984 in reply to Wyominganxiety]

Sometimes it's hard to see someone else in a confident place or better place but it's what we all want for ourselves. Continue to support each other x

[Brumchick]

Always best to try not not second guess or jump to conclusions.6 years is a long time,with im sure many fluctuations in severity of symptoms from day to day even month to month.Your time will come, hang in there.Also golden rule a persons benefit status is private as is their therapists findings,imagine how hurt you might feel if someone you have confided in long term doubted your truth ,your right to benefits / and or ability to pay maintenance?? the government does plenty of that already with out sick people doing so to each other .No one knows how a person is doing with regards their problems ,how they r coping with anxiety etc except the person involved.Far better to support even in if in doubt than make your own thoughts known about that person....... especially on an anxiety website,the person might Involved might see it 😳.