phew first thing is first i can breathe she has gone away no not my anxeity she is still being the biggest pain in the bum going but my neighbour a whole 7 days without her. I suffer from agrophobia so this is the first time in ages I have managed to escape her and the relief is fantastic its almost like losing anxiety Let me fill you in my neighbour or gloria as i like to call her (names changed lol) is around my age with a hubby and 2 small kids the same age as my two. She moved into her house a few month before i did mine with my hubby, and instant thoughts where great a friend for us happy days . Sadly 8 years later I wanna hit her with my frying pan. She just annoys me so much !! She is sadly a typical big headed know it all. When my kids got genuinly ill hers to where ill and so much worse than mine. Not the case. Whatever i buy to wear or decorate my home she has to get to. Your building up a picture ? now times it by like 100 she can get a lot worse . So I avoid her as and when I can, trouble is i dont want to fall out with her this I cannot understand, i must be nuts ! But her kids are in my kids school class and I dont want them to suffer and be in a situation where there mams act more like kids than them. heck I just dont want the trouble Id rather be nice to people its just who I am. one of my flaws in this case. The thing is latley since she has know I have been suffering from anexity which I try not to hide from people she is more in my face telling me of her depression and this n that, now Im not saying she is lying but to be honest Ive heard that much crap from her I dont belive anything she says anymore. More so when her lies at times are that blantant you catch her out with her stories changing from one person to another. Now what I wanted to ask my question is Why doz she annoy me by simply living ? When I tell myself to ignore her etc I feel a compulsion to know what she is up to ? Almost like I need to premed her next strike and its annoying me so much I get wound up by her simply breathing. have any of you got people like this in your life? I also know a huge secret about her hubby I could use to bring her right down but again Im not into destroying lives never have been. Should I just disown her? x thanks for listening x
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