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Grieving from a breakup

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i really miss my ex-girlfriend. its hard for me to grasp that I will never see her again, and that I will never share those same types of memories with her anymore. It hurts because she was my comfort person and it seems like no one else will compare to her. She was my first love and im still so attached, I just want her back. And I did so many things wrong I hurt her so much and I can never make up for it. I wish she'd see this post and contact me. This won't even fix everything though like what am I even thinking.

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don’t be so hard on yourself. You’re young and have plenty of time to find the right person. I’m sorry you’re feeling these feelings and I hope you find joy in today!

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blackcat64013

Hi,I am sorry that an important relationship for you has ended.

Please remember that you can't go back in time, no matter how hard you try.

Taking the present, one day at a time is the only way forward. One moment, one hour, one day.

If you can work on accepting the situation even though you don't like it, you can change your mindset.

I still struggle so hard with this acceptance concept myself in therapy so I know it won't be easy for you. My therapist says acceptance is acknowledging the situation rather than approving of it. A very deep statement that needs more understanding.

I hope this week will good to you

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