Feeling down

I am feeling really down today and my marriage is failing apart and my husband is on the verge of walking out on me and my marriage has been like this for a while now and I am not good so I don't know what to do or to say on here aside feeling really sad and down and feels like my chest is hurting 💔 and I feel like that I don't want to be around as I have had enough 😔😔😔

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Sorry your feeling like this, I just wanted to wish you the best. Take care .

[optimismrus]

Relationships are so hard when we are struggling with our own mental health. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate and you aren't able to take time for yourself. When I am down I beat myself up. When I realize this I try to love myself the way I would a friend. Learning to love myself unconditionally is my constant challenge. Hope I'm not being preachy, I've only just joined HealthUnlocked.

[AnxiousSilver]

I'm sorry to hear that.

My PM door is always open to you.

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[ghousrider]

good day cant you see a councillor try cab if they can help with a councillor / 111 cheers ghoust rider

[LilyAnnepuppy]

Keep coming back. We’re here for you. I went through two divorces by the time I was 28. I’m on my third marriage and this one has lasted 40 years. Where there’s life there’s hope. I use professional help, medications, an extensive support system, meditation and prayer to stay on an even playing field with my depression and anxiety disorder. Hang in there.

[catsrock]

I'm so sorry. I hope today is better.

[Elizabeth830]

I can relate to a lot of what you said. I stayed for our son and now that he is out of the house for the last six years, I am just sailing on this sinking ship but too afraid to put on my life jacket and jump.

We are both stubborn and neither one of us is going to leave...therefore we argue if I treat him like a husband, but get along if I treat him like a roommate. For Valentine's Day he bought me some flowers and a crappy card. It would seem that I am ungrateful but I kept wondered why he would do this when we were not getting along. Today I asked him why he bought me things since we have been distant lately. He said he thought that we were getting along great. I was like the only reason we are getting along is because I have checked out...I am treating you like a roommate. I don't know what is more sad, the fact that he thinks we are getting along or the fact that he doesn't even know that he is being treated like a roommate.

Ever watch the movie "War of the Roses"? We aren't that bad, but neither one of them would leave the house either. I hope I get the strength to move on and not regret it once I do.

[emmi331]

I am reminded of the old expression, Women are from Venus, men are from Mars. 😬

[Trainchaser]

Do you have a support group either at home or a site like this one? Use it. If you want I can be a resource. I am a good listener. Hope you situation gets better Rick