Does anyone feel like time just evaporates out of our lives even before we realise how much of it is gone or hw much is really there...

[FantasyLife]

these days i feel like in just a second of me turning my head it is night already and weeks had passed and months r gone like the wind it's already a year yet i find myself lying in the same place not knowing how to go, where to go. forgot to embrace the moment regret fills my present and continues to the future and if i did get past this and have a good time then it comes back making me feel bad that tis happy moments r at the count of my fingertips and these days are just passing by like wind... i am still not moving or doing what really matters to me and just lay there like a starfish...

[Adlon57]

All the time, another day gone, nothing happening, what's there to look forward to, maybe tomorrow, I've been saying that for years, ad finitum? Not a nice feeling😒We need a big change FantasyLife🙄

[FantasyLife in reply to Adlon57]

yes @ad but how to change ? is it the right way to do it and why do we feel like life is just passing us by in front of our eyes and before we realize or synchronize wid it , i am afraid it will be too late or i am already 30 or 40 all my youth just poof!!

[Adlon57 in reply to FantasyLife]

Don't worry about it, your only a young pup, YOU can make it change, you have a whole life to look forward to, being retrospective at your age, does not become you, too many memories to form, I can be more retrospective at my age, FAR more years on my clock!

[FantasyLife]

I don't know I think it is mainly because I don't believe in myself or have confidence in myself to fight for something and have the courage to lose it, then pick myself up and get going again..

[ScooterJoe]

Yes, know your feeling exactly. I'm about to turn 72 years old and I ask myself where did all those years go. I've been retired now for about 6 years. Started out with this real "go-getter" attitude with so many projects I wanted to get done. That all faded when the health problems that had dogged me for the past 10 years were finally diagnosed as a rare muscle disease--nothing that was going to incapacitate me but just enough to take the wind out of my sails. The projects now lay undone, dust accumulates on the furniture, the clean laundry stacks up without getting put away. I'd rather just stay in my recliner, read and take naps. I probably need to seek counseling but I ask myself what's the use. No support at home: my husband thinks I'm just lazy and need to get up and do something. When I look at my 72 years, I definitely know there are more years behind me than ahead of me.Believe it or not I go to church regularly but seems like we spend more time there being scolded than uplifted. I may sound negative but I am actually a very positive person. I try to give an encouraging word to others. Yes, I think there a lot of us who understand what you are going through. I wish there were some magic pill that would make everything OK for us. But we just keep plodding on. Don't give up--whatever life we have, it's worth still trying to live it the best we can. Again--don't give up.

[FantasyLife in reply to ScooterJoe]

thank you so much for saying that I will try to be conscious of my day at least some time of every day so that i won't feel like time is just passing by

I will never give up to live in the moment.