HOPELESS AND DECISION MAKING MOTHER

[IamDone123]

I AM FEELING BORED HOPE LESS AND WASTING TIME

MY MOTHER FORCED ME TO TAKE MDCAT (MEDICAL AND DENTAL COLLEGE ADMISSION TEST) TWICE AND I WASTED TWO YEARS OF MY LIFE LIKE THIS IS HOW I WASTED MY LIFE AND MY YOUNGER COUSIN TO GOING TO DUBAI AND NOW AND IM SITTING AT HOME

WHAT THE FUCK AND MY MOTHER DOES CARE ABOUT IS SUCH A TOXIC CARELESS MOTHER SHE IS. ALWAYS FORCING HER DECISION ON ME ALWAYS ON CAREER AND CLOTHES.I REALLY REALY HATE HER AND EVEN SHOUTS ON ME FOR MY MENTAL HEALTH.

SAYS I AM GOOD FOR NOTHING AND I CANNOT DO ANYTHING AND ASKS ME FOR MY MONEY

[Hb2003]

Im so sorry about that 😞

[Blueruth]

Leave. Go out on your own. Dental tech jobs pay well. Do that until you figure out what you want to do. Not a bad plan.

I mean …that’s manipulative. You can’t do anything but you do enough to give her money? Enough.

[compasnet]

have you talked to her about how this makes you feel?

[Midori]

I'm sorry you have a controlling mother, it's not a great situation.

I can see you are 22, is there any way you could go stay with other rellies or friends? At least until you can sort your head out and decide what You want to do with your life.

Is there anything you can put your finger on that will give you a clue why your mother is acting this way? What about brothers, sisters, father?

Cheers Midori

[Hidden]

This sounds miserable. Do you have an aunt, uncle, grandparent, or friend you could move in with temporarily? When I was 19 I was having a hard time with my mother because I had told her I'm a lesbian and she wouldn't stop arguing with me about it. I spent the summer with an aunt & uncle and it was really helpful. I wish you well.