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Writing this because i have no one to turn when am going through depression. I always feel like i am no one and I don’t matter because no one text me or calls me. When i was young i had alot of people to talk to but I realize those people aren’t really my friends because when i need them there not here for me. Had a girl wanted to marry she left me for someone else, it broke me in so many ways. Got turn down for the job I always wanted. Cry most times before i go to sleep no one to turn to, no one to say that their gonna be there for me no matter what. Sometimes i wonder if I ended it if anybody who care about me! Dont have any luck with nothing, always end up last. I pray, have patience but its like i was made to be alone unhappy and i dont think I would get better. Just want to feel like am somebody and be happy

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Flower_2501

Hello,

Please remember it’s the other people’s loss not yours. We are all valued in our own ways but by the right people. I’ve spent years being left either family and friends but it is their loss if they don’t come on the same path as us. When the dark days are over, you will find steps in a new direction and new people will enter your life. I promise. Just take each day as it comes and take little steps. Keep strong

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clairecreative

Stay strong, it is difficult to see people in your life not be there for you in the ways you were there for them. You will meet so many people in your life that will leave a lasting impact on you, whether negative or positive, but people who genuinely care for you will come. I sincerely hope each day gets a little bit better, and every day is a step towards meeting people who care for you the same you care for them.

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WiltedFlower

Please stay strong. I know through times of depression when you are alone it just makes everything harder, but try reaching out to others like you have us. If you can find the right people to support you and show you happiness, maybe you can create it for yourself too. In the meantime, we on this page are here to support you no matter what. If you have something going on, or you'd just like to talk I will gladly listen and support you. You are not alone! Please reach out when you need it! xx <3

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Kemarrrrrr in reply toWiltedFlower

Really in need for some help so ..if you don’t mind can message you to give me some advice

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WiltedFlower in reply toKemarrrrrr

well, it sounds like you are really in need of some friends, so maybe look somewhere else and don't look to the people you did when you were younger b/c you're older now and the times have changed. Also, what's your dream job?

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Kemarrrrrr in reply toWiltedFlower

To join the army. Got rejected twice

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WiltedFlower in reply toKemarrrrrr

what for?

Hold up, back this choo choo train up. Ok, so you don't have a bunch of fake friends. That's a blessing my friend. Would you rather have a crap ton of fake friends or a few that are REAL friends? You will find genuine real people that can relate right here. Look no further. There are so many people here that can understand and want to help here

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straight facts

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Freedom57

Depression seems to be like a magnifying light on every negative aspect of our lives

Keep trying to find your own happiness & don’t give up!

Hey, would you really want to be in the army right now with this coronavirus pandemic going on??? I sure as hell wouldn't!!! I know how some of these guys love to talk tough about being in the armed forces-Some of them are just lucky they didn't get injured or killed, and a lot of them develop PTSD and they hate the 4th of July because the fireworks can sound like bombs going off. Sometimes rejection can be God's protection. You regroup and you aim for another dream.

You can chat anytime you want to me,Ihave had depression /anxiety seems like all my life,and I am soooo old. Ihave my family round me so lucky in some ways,but I mostly want to be alone when I feel really bad.shame you didn't get in the army,I don't know how old you are but if you are still young enough try for the navy,/raf my Daughter was in the raf my son the Navy and my grandson is in the navy now.take care sweetie. try listening to binaural beats through your head phones they help me so much,especially with sleeping.God bless

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BurtieClassic

You're not a nobody.. you're a beautiful, deserving soul. We can almost get use to the pain but you have a mind of your own and the freedom to make positive decisions...to learn how to make friends that are truly friends. Begin loving yourself...know your worth which is precious...and take it a step at a time.

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Cardinal2

I can relate to you. I have been there for so many especially one person. This person knew who i was and they knew my struggles and when this person was hurting I did everything I could to help. Unfortunately, it was not recipricated. It hurt me but i hold no anger towards this person. This friend moved away and moved on. Although it saddens me greatly, I still pray for their happiness. I guess I am cut from a different cloth. I don't leave no matter what. In some ways, I see strength in myself because I do not forget those who have helped me while others do.

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