My heart is broken!!

[Boomba76]

😥😥😥

[UnderstandingMyPain]

I’m sorry to read your hurt ❤️. I hope as the days go by it gets somewhat better

[Hidden]

Boomba

I do not know your reasons why ?. All I can suggest is be open to the season. It will be hard I know, Christmas can become a very divisive time of the year.

Can we help

BOB

[Boomba76 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks for your reply. Me and my wife separated Sunday and I just having a hard time.

[Hidden in reply to Boomba76]

I am sorry what has happened, life can be cruel especially when something like this happens especially over the Festive Season. It is important that you divert your thoughts and look forwards to activities you enjoy

I was wondering if you had made any arrangements for Christmas and New Year, if you can ask family to invite you into their Christmas, I know you will be not good company at this time although at this time a quiet house, your house will not be a positive place to be

Our Christmases here are my Wife and Dog, because of family Breakup We used to travel abroad in past years, I can recommend that as you would be able to be in a group of people who can have problems of their own . In the UK we can get Bookings at the last min for this type of holiday. The first break we had was a discounted booking one week before Christmas, it took our mind of what had been going on for many decades.

All I can say is try not to be alone at this time you need to be able to divert any negative thoughts you may have, to dwell on the situation at this time is counter productive

BOB,

[Agora1]

Dearest Boomba, here is a bandaid for now.

You must heal from inside to out.

Sending you "healing" wishes. Know that we

all care and want you to smile one day again. xx

[Boomba76 in reply to Agora1]

Thank you Agora1 you are heaven sent!! 😍

[JMB1989]

Hey Boomba, I have diabetes, toe amputation, congestive heart failure, and diabetic retinopathy. I usually post these medical conditions. So people know why I am here. I have depression. My wife left me three months ago. I have an understanding of your broken heart. I am sitting in a empty house that was full of life 3 months ago. Wife, 3 cats, 2 dogs, wifes friend and our roommate. They all left together and moved to SC. Now I am alone. I am about to go to work. I have 3 jobs. I work a great deal. I am slowly dieing from congestive heart. It is a progressive illness. I have no idea what will become of me when I cannot work anymore. I do know that diabetes increases depressive symptoms. It has damaged my body for 30 years. My message to you is get your personal health in control. If you do not work this out with your wife. Get involved socially. I just started a friendship with a lady. It helps me to talk with her.

[Agora1 in reply to JMB1989]

JMB1989, you may have a lot of boulders on your path through life,

but I admire you in not giving up. We go forward until we no longer

can but at least we keep living. My best to you xx

[JMB1989 in reply to Agora1]

I been fighting for 2 years. Not just for life. To remain relevant and productive. I dont want to become a person who ends up as nothing.

[Dolphin14 in reply to JMB1989]

Good for you. You sound very strong. You are a survivor.

[Boomba76 in reply to JMB1989]

Thank you for sharing this. I am staying at a friends house and just trying to take 1 day at a time. Some days are bad and others are worse...

[Vanillaorchid]

What happened?

[Boomba76 in reply to Vanillaorchid]

Separation from wife. Long sad story... just feeling bad today!

[Hidden]

Why is your heartbroken? People assume it's always over a relationship. The worst I've had my heart broken is when my dad died. PM me if you want a chat

[Boomba76 in reply to Hidden]

Sorry to hear that. Yes mine is over a separation from the wife. Blind sided on 11/1 with the big “Love you, not IN Love with you.” moved out Sunday 12/8.

2 little ones. She waited for the Holidays I guess!

[Hidden]

Oh that's not very nice right on top of Christmas...I'm sure you'll in our thoughts and as I said pm me if you want a longer chat.

[Mrspjsmom]

Sending positive healing thoughts and HUGS!!!

[Boomba76 in reply to Mrspjsmom]

Thank you so much mom...

[ovilia]

That is so hard. Especially this time of year. I do know that I have been divorced twice and both times were so painful that I felt that the pain would never end. Now I look back on them and think, "Huh?" The pain is gone and I have no more negative feelings or pain. I wish that I knew at the time that this would happen