I have been through several depressive phases in my life. But lately a new wave has hit me. I seem to be irritated all the time, have lost my purpose in life, feel unappreciated and unloved. I am unhappy with my current professional situation and struggling in my marriage. I am constantly tired, and every task to do seems like too much. I don’t feel like I have any place anymore. I am usually someone who gets up and tries to change what bothers me. But now I simply don’t have the strength. I want to sleep all the time.
After my mother died five years ago, I went to a difficult phase too, but not as bad as this. A year ago it seemed like I was getting better. I could even be happy again at times. But a couple of months back it all started dwindling downwards again.
I don’t feel I can talk to friends, as they are busy with their lives too. My husband can’t understand as he’s had much more difficulties in his life than me, and he always pulls himself together again. But it’s significant, because I feel I have no moral support in my life at this time. I am 53 and in my menopause. I wonder if this could be related, and if anyone else is experiencing this? Thank you for taking the time to read and to share your experiences/thoughts.