My ratio of positive to negative posts is still dangerously even.... I’ll have to find time to fix that when I’m in a better mood.... until then...
I’m so f—-ing sick of fighting with my ex!!! 🤬🤬🤬🤬
Seriously! It’s reached a point where she almost always comes back and says I was right but I think she’s screwing with me head on purpose because I NEVER won arguments when we were together.
It’s not even the fighting that pisses me off it’s WHAT it is about. For some background, my ex has had a vastly different experience with dating while separated than I have. What’s relevant to this post is she’s been seeing one guy in particular for a couple months now. Originally not exclusive and the whole time occasionally trying to talk me into maybe giving her another shot.
Then a couple of weeks ago she goes to a concert with him. She gets home around 3 am when I got home from my old job and is just gushing about how they’re so serious now and she has such strong feelings for him, blah blah blah...
I don’t care. Good riddance. She’s done nothing but make me miserable for years. BUUUUT!!
She turns around and says “you need to meet him because we’re going to need his help with childcare.”
Over my dead f—-ing body!
She had the nerve the next day to tell me that I need to be okay with it because the kids are going to have to start going on dates with them! I lost my shit. Her argument is because they’ve been friends on Facebook and have talked for months he’s trustworthy and qualified. I don’t care. I don’t trust just anyone with my beautiful 7 year old girl and son who can’t speak and they’d been “serious” for less than 12 damned hours!
Anyway, massive fights have ensued since then including one where she guilted me into driving out of my way after work to “help her drunk and sick friends” to get me to meet him but it was calm for a while... (I should note she claims this wasn’t the plan but she distinctly made it sound like she wanted to die so I would talk to her on the phone, said she had three women throwing up out the windows and made it sound like she was driving with no mention of him.... being the damned DD of all things).
Then she pops up last night and tries to clear him coming over to the house because her mom won’t be home this weekend (her mother LOATHES AND DESPISES him on account of her being a massive racist).... while me and the kids are sleeping...
That was probably the worst fight we ever had and she didn’t even seem to think her idea was weird or could easily backfire for nearly half an hour. The fight drug on at least twice as long as that.
She has admitted today that I was right. It could have gone wrong and our daughter probably wouldn’t handle it well but what is so hard for her to understand about this? I don’t want significant others around our kids PERIOD unless it has been serious for a very, very long time. She talks like it’s her right to introduce him whenever she damned well pleases and it should be be in the next couple of months.... when they’ve been officially exclusive for maybe 2-3 weeks
She does all this after she had the freaking nerve to tell me I’m spending too much time with my daughter and it would be easier for her to adjust when I move out if I didn’t earlier in the afternoon....
End of rant.... I’m only getting more angry...