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i feel like i am all alone because i do not know anyone who is going through the same thing i am so if your depressed and had to deal with a breakup of a long term relationship and you know some tips to cope i would greatly appreciate it because right now death seems more sweet than bitter

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I am alone but never been through a serious relationship but what I do is go on youtube and watch some social experiments or social pranks that somewhat cheers me up or just watch something funny in general. :). I still feel like shit and can never sleep well

Man I'm so sorry you are dealing with a broken heart. Right now you need time to heal, be kind & gentle with yourself. You never know what's waiting for you around the corner. I understand 100% how you feel, know this will pass. I'm here for you. love, peace, joy, light & hugs!!!

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hurtingheart1

I’m sorry you’re feeling like this🌼but I just wanna say I think there’s somebody or possibilities of 1’s out there for everyone!! just because this 1 wasn’t right 1 for you doesn’t mean there never will be!! so just take this time to be the best you you can be and try to patiently wait till you do come across that right 1 and then you’ll be much more ready for them to!!😀 I know can be easier said than done at times but it’ll be worth the wait! Plus there’s lots you can learn and do in mean time and lots of good in life as well just hang in there!! My heart goes out to you as well as my prayers for your heart to heal and as you can see even us strangers on here care-so hopefully that tells you something good -right? The potential for wonderful things is there for you!!😊

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Sccccc

That happen by humen past. On the past time people were more socially than now. Because they need each other and to be alone worry them about their duty( safety, food....) i can offer two solutions for you. 1. Order by yourself you do not need anyone. You can live alone but that solition is hard and make u unfeeling.

2. Say hello , good morning etc... if they feedback ask them how are they ? And do not forget to smile. When you see some one need help (caryy boxes for old peoples, give seat on the bus etc...) ask them can you help them. And do not forget when they not answer u or reject your help offer. That is your duty accepting or rejecting are their choice.

Regards

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IheartDogs

I'm so sorry for your break up and do understand how painful it can be. But you have to know that with some time, you will feel better. In the meantime, take some time for yourself, be patient and nurture yourself with the things that make you feel good. Find people to support you, like us.💗

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momonthego2019

I'm so sorry you are feeling like this. I don't know too many people who haven't gone through some sort of heartbreak. I heard someone speak about reflecting on the relationship and the good that came out of it. I don't think you have to dismiss the memories of the relationship totally. If you can look at what you learned and gained from the relationship and not so much what you lost, it will help you heal faster and prepare you for the next relationship. I know you may not be thinking about that now, however, in time, you will meet someone else and it would be great to not bring the hurt and pain of the last relationship into the next one. Take this time to enjoy focusing on yourself, doing what you want, when you want. Being around others is great so get out and hang with friends, or spend time with family. Spend time on a new hobby or current interests now that you have the time. One thing that helped me the most is telling myself that they probably did the best thing for me. Leaving me allows me the chance to meet the "right" person.

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