Venting

My son came into my room to tell me he vomit and to say he did it in the tub. I got up to see the damage and I was amazed at the amount, wish he poured it out in the toilet. Yes, i was frustrated because i had to glove up and take most of it out my hand so it would not stop up the tub ughhhh. He knew I was agitated and annoyed because I had to do the labor he got mad and we started arguing. I was not mad because he vomit I was mad because he passed up the toilet to do it in the tub and cause I cleaned it up. My son is very selfish, mean, ungrateful, etc. When he is in my home my stress level is higher and he does things that pisses me off he is 21 I do not have to put up with this ish he is lazy to, I am so tired of his bs. Some days I hate waking up and I get mad at God a lot because he see that I am miserable, etc and he is still allowing me to suffer. Finally, people please get away from energy vampires and those who do not care for u like u care about them. I am ready to be free I do not have a life, I just exist I am not living. I can't catch a break the helpers tend not to get the help that they give.

[Dolphin14]

I would be a bit frustrated also. Unfortunately it's what we have to do when a family member is sick.

Are you getting help for your depression?

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[Hidden in reply to Dolphin14]

he could have cleaned it I have had to do it when I vomit but it’s cool. And no I don’t want to be on meds at all

[Dolphin14 in reply to Hidden]

I was going to say he could have cleaned it but then I figured he was sick so maybe he couldn't.

[Hidden in reply to Dolphin14]

he was playing with his phone though

[Dolphin14 in reply to Hidden]

Ok well then I would have handed him the gloves lol

[Hidden in reply to Dolphin14]

right

[Hidden]

Hey, I know kids can be selfish but at 21 he needs to clean the the tub. Not understanding why he doesn’t use the toilet. Have you tried having a conversation with him and really laying down the law? I would.. it’s your home and he is an adult. Arguing will not solve the problem. You need to find a different way to push his buttons. Good luck 👍

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I have done that it is my fault for putting up with his bs for this long. And I know ppl get sick but he could have used toilet. He was homeless i contacted him to tell him where i moved because i hate to see him outdoors but that was a mistake