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ok look no one can say anything about knowing if he xxxx loves me or not, no one can say if i xxxx make him happy or not. everything he tells me i believe because i know he wouldnt lie, he never has. so everyone that says i dont make him happy or he doesnt love needs to xxxxx themselves. i dont want to be mean or anything but you cant go around acting like you know everything because you dont, you dont know either of us.

[charley1894]

Hi Purelove1, im guessing you post on here for responses and opinions. maybe not. but that’s what i do. sometimes it’s what we need. i would suggest talking to your boyfriend, does he know you post on here? does he really know how you feel? do you want him to know?

love is difficult and sometimes blind, how can he help if he doesn’t know the extent?

i tell my boyfriend everything so he can understand, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.

only a suggestion, please do no take offence. 100% not intended.

hope you start to feel better soon.

Charley.

[Hidden in reply to charley1894]

no i post on here to get it out. yes he knows how i feel.

[fauxartist]

Nope..your absolutely right, nobody knows but you..that's very true, and okay...just know that when you post here, people are just wanting to be there for you while your working through your stuff.

I read this in a couple of your posts back where you said:

'My boyfriend has cheated on me in the past and right now I feel like he is but I feel guilty for not trusting him. '

And I think that people just wanted to make you feel better, not judge you or your BF. It sounded like you were hurting and the comments were meant to be supportive and make you feel like your not alone.

It's okay to be angry, but try not to be too angry with the folks here, they understand, they care....only you know what's best for you....so keep sharing....it's okay...just say your venting or something and not wanting any advice...and that's okay too.

[hypercat54]

I agree with faux. You posted on here with certain information and presumably asking for advice which we very kindly gave you. No one on here has to reply to anyone you know as it is entirely voluntary and we all suffer from our own issues too don't forget.

Have you considered how your post could affect the health and wellbeing of those who have tried to help you? Or do you just not care about us? I have now gone back and taken off any replies to you.

Oh one last thing foul language isn't allowed on the site so I have had to report it to our admin.

[HearYou in reply to hypercat54]

I see where the administrators edited PureLove1's language in her post. I would have recommended she be removed from the venue. I and others do not need to open our computers to help and read what and how she posted her concern. The guidelines of the venue are quite clear about language.

Very difficult to support someone, when she doesn't even watch her language. Know she is upset and distraught, but maybe at him......not us. We're here to see if there is support we can offer but by writing using the language she chose, I feel like she expected me to have "to listen" to it.

Choosing the way she wrote did not create a positive image of her. And yes, I could read her post and just move on, but the damage was already done. Can't make the decision to move on without reading the post with the foul language.

[SpeaktheTruth]

He’s cheated on you numerous times in the past and left you 5 times...that pretty much let’s me know exactly how he feels about you.

[Hidden in reply to SpeaktheTruth]

Ok, he's cheated on me once not numerous times.

[HearYou in reply to Hidden]

How do you know? It is very hard to accept, and once is one too many. You do have a difficult situation, and a loving relationship may have its ups and downs, but not like this. And Speakthetruth mentioned your man has left you 5 times. Sometimes the last person in a relationship or marriage to really know or believe there is a third person involved is one of the partners. Please think about that.

[HearYou]

Please,your language. The Administrators edited your post again.

[HearYou]

I just read your post twice again. Why are you posting? Your post basically says you'll only "listen" to what you want to hear, and you know everything already, so no one who replies in a way you don't like is going to get slammed by you. Like hypercat54, I may be deleting my replies. They really may not be ones you want. After reading all your other posts and replies and the ones on this post I believe you are with the wrong man , you deserve better, but get angry when you hear that. I wish you the best and hope I am wrong.