My world has been upended, my husband of 25 years is having a baby and it is with my sister! I am at a total loss!!! How do I go on knowing that my husband is going to have a baby and that it is with my sister. My sister has always wanted a baby and I guess she is finally getting what she has always wanted. I have moved out of my home because apparently this encounter happened at my home when I was out of town in October. I feel like I have lost everything. I have three children, but I do not feel like I should be breaking down on them all the time. I have no other immediate family and all I do is cry. I don't want to cry like this, what do I do? My husband calls and wants me to "get over it" and "just continue our family." How do I do that, when all I think about is the fact that he is having a baby with my sister and our children are 20 and older?