Lost everyone

My best friends doesn’t want to no me well that how it feels, she just come not so close after everything we been through. She went university far and I did go with her a i was ill and the boy I was would was holding me back , she have new friends. Which good just she back form university as it Christmas and she not once come round I ask her so many times , I been round her house couple of time. I feel like I have not friends anymore. I look at her I feel like I don’t even know her. I’m all alone 😔

[JPhilip]

Hi bill1998, I don’t know if this really helps but I felt the same way for a while. I had to leave my church because my parents divorced and I lost a LOT of friends. I felt like they stopped caring about me. But it turned out that a lot of the people that really cared about me still did. My siblings and a few other people were always there for me. Do you have anyone in your life that you could hang out with, maybe other friends or family? It might help you not feel so lonely, and maybe you can talk to them about this. And it sounds like you are still in a school environment, so you will probably find some new friends soon. That happened to me shortly after my parents separated, I got to know the people in my classes really well and we became friends. Anyways, I’m really sorry that you feel that way about your best friend, and I wish you luck in finding other people that you can hang out with. And if you feel lonely, always feel free to talk to the community here.

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Aww thank you very much , I wish u the best as well x

[Windy101]

Hi Bill1998, I'm so sorry for what you're going through. It's painful to feel that a good friendship is slipping away and especially to feel lonely. Since you don't know for sure what your friend is thinking, it might be best to give him/her some space to see what happens.

Meanwhile, making new friends is probably a good idea. I know, easier said than done. A lot depends on your age which I dont know, but I'm guessing you are in your 20s? Are you taking any classes? Is there a place where people your age are hanging out?

Maybe this friend will come back closer than ever, or maybe not. But either way, it will help to try to have some new people in your life to ease the loneliness. Things will get better!

I wish you all the best, and you are always welcome here where you have plenty of friends.

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I go to university in October, as I didn’t go this year cause I won’t doing well and had family problems, so I’m going in 2018 , so hopefully meet people there but till then I’m just been at home

[Windy101]

That's hard. I hope you can find some ways to get out and be around some new people. Sometimes doing things that don't sound that great can turn out to be be more fun than we expected. Volunteering or church might be a way to connect with people your age.

I know the pain of loneliness. I'm so sorry. I hope that lots of friends come along in the new year, for both of us! It's hard, but we have to put ourselves out there to meet anyone new.

Let's both do it!

[Agora1 in reply to Windy101]

Windy101, How are you doing today? did you make the move to the other apartment? I hope you did and that you are keeping warm. xx

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Thank you 😊

[Windy101]

Oh, Agora, thank you for asking and caring! Yes, my cats and I got out this morning while it snowed! I'm happy as can be feeling warm and seeing the glow of my Christmas tree in a cozy little, WARM place!!! How are you doing today? How's the windy city?