I have been doing counseling and taking increasing doses and different types of drugs for depression and anxiety. Recently I have been increasing doses of ADD medication, which does seem to help me focus some instead of being so scatter-brained. But I still have the nervous tremors, bouncing legs, and have returned to chewing fingernails, sometimes when I am sleeping!. The all-over itching has never subsided, and I have been examined to ensure I do not have a physical issue causing any of the above. My main problem is my inability to fix my bad social behaviors with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. My actions are very self-centered like I am protecting myself. This of course does not work well with my spouse who is ready to divorce me. Where do I go from here? Why won't I modify my actions & reactions to social situations- or even just being able to talk with my wife?