They say it never rains but it pours. So here I am dealing with relationship difficulties with my two closest friends. Both are about boundary issues, which seem to be so huge with people like myself who were abused as children and again as adults because we seem to attach ourselves to people who will walk all over us. In the last few years I am learning and relearning not to do that, and to set boundaries. But first, I have to notice that my boundaries have been violated and figure out how. Anybody relate?