Sad, lonely

[JBUGGIE210]

Im so lonely it's crazy. Ive been alone my whole life or atleast felr like i was alone but never lonely. I dont make friends because in anti social and when i do we loose conract because well i suck at communication. I do have a fiance but he works 12 to 16 hours in the day and i work at night. So wr literally just pass by eachother as we go to bed on our seperate hours. I miss him, but a busy man is usually trying to be a successful a man. No complaints about him working but i was lonely before he started back working its gotten worse. I have 2 kids 6 and 1. My 6 year old has his "own" life and my one yeaf old is a mommas baby. If i close my room door she will yell and scream. She is spoiled rotten. I dont even know what im trying to say but i just have to say something. Maybe someone will talk to me.

[YASMINTINA FMA UK Volunteer]

Morning don’t be sad and lonely someone here always to listen the forum is a good place to share as many of us have felt this way, fibro does change things , I understand as my husband worked away and I was bringing up my young children on my own but he doesn’t now and I realise he was building a secure future for his family as I’m sure your partner is doing . Don’t be so hard on yourself you properly have so much to give as a friend what about starting with a weekly group with your toddler mums/tots kind of thing , it will also help her mixing /sharing toys with other little ones. My son was a mummy’s boy but doing this kind of thing during the week helped. There will always be in a group chatty confident people but some who are quiet. but my saying is everyone bring something to the table , everyone has different life’s but that’s what makes conversation over a cuppa so interesting, Give it a try in your area a place to start, this can lead to other things picnic in the park for a meet up,I hope this helps. If you would like to lock your posts here’s a link healthunlocked.com/fibromya... Take care look forward to see you post again xxxx

[SusieJo1948]

Hi JILLY FOR STARTERS YOUR NOT ALONE. YOU HAVE ME TO TALK TO

THE OTHERS ON HERE ARE A GREAT BUNCH,THEY WILL BE HERE FOR YOU.YOU CAN TALK TO THEM THEY GIVE GOOD ADVICE. YOU ARE NOT ALONE WE ARE HERE FOR YOU.IM HERE WHEN EVER YOU NEED ME. LOVE SUSIE

[honeybug]

Hi JBuggie210😊🌸🌿🦋

You are overwhelmed dear. Sooo sorry you’re having a really rough patch. I did too with the boy I took in and raised. He nearly died at 6 weeks from a total bowel blockage at birth. He suffered some severe brain damage and it took a toll on both of us. I’m a loner too. So many health problems since birth and a traumatic childhood made it difficult to socialize.

You’ve come to the right place for everyone on this forum can relate to each other in one way or another.

I hope you get to feeling better soon. Take care dear

😊🌸🌿🦋 🤗💕😘

[JBUGGIE210]

Thank you guys so much!!. I met up with an old friend tonight, just for a few mins but it felt great. It was awsome. We had lost contact but ended up living in the same place again after years. Maybe we are some of those "ment to be" friends. Idk but it felt good to have her back in my life

[feistyfibro74]

I am sorry you feel this way. Your kids make life worth living. They need you especially in their young age. I know its not easy but just dont give up. You are stronger than you think.

[Aoibheann]

Hello, ah! mammas little sticky plaster!😍🥰. How’s things with you now? Take care. x