FET - why?! 8dp5dt

[Happydays8]

I’m just so confused. The amount of ‘extra’ help we had this FET cycle and I’m 8dp5dt and still a stark white bfn. I don’t get it?!

I’m on 1200mg progesterone, 6mg progynova, 1mg dexamethasone, 80mg aspirin, 40mg Clexane daily. Plus I had filgrastim 3 days before transfer to help it stick and also the intralipid drip on the day of transfer. Also had the endo scratch last month, that is supposed to increase chances.

How has none of this worked? I’m so exhausted and shattered about it.

I’m so sorry, I just need to vent and chat. I feel very alone right now. I know a lot of you are going through so much, but I just don’t know how to cope right now.

Sending all the baby dust to each and everyone fo you. Thanks for listening xx

[Fizz37]

Hey - totally with you! Am 10dp5dt and not a hint of a line. OTD tomorrow so I guess I will still test - and you should defo not lose hope at 8 days!!! Keeping all fingers, toes and paws crossed for you, there's time!!! ❤🤞🥰

[Depooch in reply to Fizz37]

Are you cramping or spotting? Im 2dp5dt and no symptoms or side affects, which scares me. Im sorry to hear nothing is working as of now. Prayers sent your way!

[Fizz37 in reply to Depooch]

Awww thanks! Have had a lot of symptons including what appeared to be implantation bleeding on day 4. Headaches, cramps, back ache, thirst. All stopped day 8...

But you never know, we all react differently - many women I believe dont have any symptoms and get their BFP so got to hang in there!!!🥰🤞❤

[Depooch in reply to Fizz37]

Tha ks for the insight... I agree. Nothing we can do but wait. My embryos were 1 week, so I only have to wait until 1 week after the transfer...is yours different?

[Linda84Co]

I hear you and I know how it feels, I tested early and I got a faint positive but you never know till your OTD... I see how my husband looks at me and it breaks my heart, he is really positive but I’m so scared of another chemical or miscarriage or missed miscarriage 😩I know how these two weeks are unbearable but it might be BFP for you in a few days.... look after yourself, take all your medications on time, and have a little hope❤️

[Angels2us]

I know how you feel completely, but please don’t give up yet it’s still early fingers crossed for you sending you love and hugs 😘😘

[Violet1987]

My friend didn’t get her faint line until 10dp and her son is almost 2 now. Good luck xx

[flonatips]

Did you have an ERA test that calculates your implantation window?

[sunset212]

Hi lovely so sorry to hear this has not been a positive this time for you, maybe there are too many 'ingredients' in the mix' and one of them has knocked things off kilter! For example uterine scratch i read from a study is an amber rating and i think the same on HFEA as its not proven to work. What is filgrastrim? Was this a natural or Medicated FET? Sending hugs xx

[erinmalison in reply to sunset212]

I know this is old but .. This. The only BFP I have ever had were unmedicated. Once they started throwing too many ingredients in the mix I always had a BFN.

[Happydays8 in reply to erinmalison]

I tried for many times I medicated. I have too many issues that my body attacks itself. I ended up doing another stim cycle, first transfer with minimum ‘assistance’, only what was required, no success.

Then did the next one with all the above again, plus transferring two embryos. I now have a beautiful 18 month old. 🥰