My second FET 8DP5DT

[Seyedeh]

Heyyy here Iam again. Feeling sad already 🫤

Dislike last time (which was chemical pregnancy from day 5dp to 10dp) I havent tested early and my OTD is Monday however I will test on Sunday just to give myself apportunity to grief in quiet.

This time I completely lived my normal life like nothing happened as I couldn’t deal with emotional side of the transfer.

I had hugee bloating and worst backache in day 6 for few hours but then before and after everything was normal and I had no symptoms.

Now that Im almost one day a way from testing and I feel blue because I kind of know it hasn’t worked .Its good that I wasnt hopeful from beginning and ignored the fact that I had transfer but its sad that I have to go trough this again and probably again until ….

[sj482]

hey, don’t lose hope until you know for sure - you might not have had any symptoms - or the back a h r was or you might have kept yourself busy enough to not notice any! Please don’t give up hope just yet. I’m thinking of you and feel your pain. X

[Seyedeh in reply to sj482]

Thank youuu

I try to hon but as you know its hard !!!I was so sure first ET is working because our problem was sperm issue and now if second is BFN like I think maybe we were completely in a wrong direction.

[sj482 in reply to Seyedeh]

I know it’s really hard! I had a meltdown this evening (see my most recent post) this is probably our last round so I’m desperate!!

[Kittykat198]

I can’t tell you if this has worked but sending a hug because Ivf is crappy x

[Seyedeh in reply to Kittykat198]

Thank you for supporting 🙏🙏🙏

[Nenad]

I know exactly how you feel! We have male factor so I thought that’s it, all it’ll take is 1 transfer - boy was I wrong! Three transfers later and here we are. Your time will come, you’re literally pregnant until proven otherwise. Wishing you all the best xxx

[Seyedeh in reply to Nenad]

Thanks darling.

Such a shock ,right?!

Hopefully this time you will get BIG Fat Positive.

[Nenad in reply to Seyedeh]

100%! Thank you so much ❤️

Really hope you get your very well deserved BFP too xxx

[IVFmumma]

try not to give up hope yet. I had no real symptoms and got a BFP. Just keep busy till you take that test! Wishing you all the best ✨✨✨🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

[Seyedeh in reply to IVFmumma]

So glad some of you experienced this dream come true after so much hardship.

Thank you for kind message xxx

[darkbuthappyplace]

I’m with you, I feel exactly the same. My OTD is Monday. This is my 6th transfer, first FET, I’ve had no symptoms at all but I did with fresh. I feel I would know but like you trying to ignore it all. I’m testing tomorrow too. I just hope we’re these ladies that have no symptoms and end up with a nice surprise! Sending love xxx

[Seyedeh in reply to darkbuthappyplace]

Hope sooo.Hopfully you are positive this time.

I almost dont want to test now🤣 I have no nerve to deal with BFN ,

I feel like lets leave it for now until eventually I find out😵‍💫

[darkbuthappyplace in reply to Seyedeh]

totally get you, I’m not ready to deal. Sending so much luck xxx

[Chukulu]

Just don’t lose hope I felt implantation at 12dp5dt untill than I had 0 symptoms and even after that I continue having no symptoms so continue your medication there’s still lots of time.Also this was my 5th transfer.

[Seyedeh in reply to Chukulu]

Thats such a heart warming story.

Bless you !

At what date did you do the test and got positive?

[Chukulu in reply to Seyedeh]

my beta was at 15dp5dt so I tested at 14dp5dt was sure it will be negetive but turned out positive now 14 week running.Also all other transfer I had progesterone gel but this transfer I had highest dose of progesterone injection and that worked for me.

[Lolalules]

also testing Monday - minimal symptoms except fatigue but I’m on progesterone so could be that. Got my fingers crossed for us all!

[Seyedeh in reply to Lolalules]

good luck Lola from my heart and soul ♥️

[Seyedeh]

I just done the test my soul friends and the resul is as I expected BFN .At least The waiting is finished now .

My second emby also had no intention to stay with me !

[Nenad in reply to Seyedeh]

I’m so sorry 🤗🤗 now that you’ve had two BFNs it’s worth asking your doctor if they would suggest any testing to rule out anything getting in the way besides embryo abnormalities xx