I'm in the process of being diagnosed and they're threatening to put me in the Mirena coil when they do my lap, but I have had a very bad reaction with the prog only coil and provera they put me on to try to clear retained placenta after they screwed up my c-section and left some placenta behind. I get very depressed and almost suicidal very quickly, so this is not for me. But I was very happy in femodene before I had the baby and would prefer to go back on that. Altho' I am 35 hrs old and very fat (13.5st at 5ft3.5). Any ideas? Is there a more modern combined pill out there safer for fat older ladies? Would love to have the benefit of your thoughts ladies!