IBS really bad yesterday and agony today - could hardly eat anything - middle of the night - (sorry TMI) but didn't make it to the loo!!!
Think "best friend" has fallen out with me - my invitation to her 50th birthday was obviously lost in the post - didn't know about it till saw her OH's pics on Fb - (like the Jubilee BBQ they had last June "for a few friends"!!!!) - put something on FB - okay probably shouldn't tho it wasn't that bad - haven't heard from her since - forwarded her a few funny emails as I often do - nothing!
Spoke to sis - said if I didn't hear from friend in the next week or so would write to her - sis dead against it - "friendship is what the other person is prepared to give" And you have to take whatever they choose to dole out??? Oh, THAT'S friendship, is it? Sorry I thought it was more equal than that. Sister - "My friend X I only ever see her about once a year!" Me "Where does she live?" Sister "Canada." Me: hysterical laughter!!!!
Said I'd had a visit from a support worker - could have some home help but wasn't sure - said some things were difficult. HER shower is VERY difficult to clean, because it's HUGE - well she bought the bloody house - "I have to stand in the bath to clean the shower" Well, yeah, you do! Me: You don't have arthritis! Sis - Well I do .....tailing off as she realised she doesn't. "I have to stand on steps to reach the top". She doesn't suffer from vertigo. She doesn't struggle to open bottles of milk with arthritis, or to turn a light on because she can't lift her arm even as far as shoulder height!!!! Did I tell her? No bloody point, if I say something hurts it's because I'm a wimp (and it probably doesn't hurt!)
Sorry. Doesn't sound much when i write it down but