Enough is enough

I am disappointed that a couple of people here are judging others on the choices they make, this place is an amazing place to come and share our stories, fears, anxieties or merely just to find a little comfort, but those who judge people are potentially preventing others from coming forward and asking for help, I really don't care if a person is vaccinated or unvaccinated, I don't judge them or try and make them feel bad for any decision they make, it's upsetting certain people and that's the opposite of what this site is about, we all have our difficulties and so let's just be here for each other regardless of what's going on in the world ❤

[hypercat54]

Yes Suzie I agree. I am not angry with anyone as I'm not an angry person but am disappointed and upset that my post was used to start inappropriate and insensitive 'discussions'.

This why I requested it stop as my intention wasn't to cause upset or dissent on here. If people wish to put their own posts up then that's fine, but not to take mine over. I will delete it rather than allow that.

The best way to deal with it (and I know it's hard when you have been the subject of that) is to not respond but just report and let the admins deal with it. We don't need aggro or dissent on here as this just upsets others and detracts from the purpose of the site.

We are all here because of our own issues and to get support and encouragement. Most do this but it can be hard sometimes when you are suffering yourself.

I hope you are ok my friend. xx

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

Yes I'm ok, I just didn't agree with or like the way the conversation was going either that's why I decided to write my own post, some people forget why we come here, we don't have to justify our personal decisions about anything, we're just here to try and support each other and thankfully I find that the majority do just that 😊 Thanks hypercat hope your ok too ❤

[Exsignals]

Unfortunately in all walks of life you get f**kwits mean sad little people who go out of their way to ruin it for everyone!? Why would anyone stop on social media to read then criticize a post? Even babies know it's easier to go past? It's because they enjoy spreading their misery around! Ideally you'd just rise above their pettyness but in a mental health situation it's dangerous so I'd report them to the site administrator!

Upbeat

[Hidden in reply to Exsignals]

Thank you 😘

[Contra21]

Here I am. Scared alone and judged. I'm scared to get vaccinated. Existing severe health anxiety, heart and vertigo. 8 don't want my symptoms to get worse or feel worse in years to.come. my brothers baby is being born I a month and have been told no jab never see the baby. Them my gf of 10 years says .woth your brother. She has 2 kids. I'm understanding but not at one stage was it hey friend are you ok, what are you concerns I'm not going anywhere ill be here. Just sorry won't see you anymore. As with my brother, and his wife constantly ask my parents if I'll get vaccinated. The pressure and judgement is more than my anxiety can handle. How quickly they cut me. It's devastating. No support. I supported th.as much as it hurt but to cut me out and not hear me or support me Am i crazy here? I feel so alone. I hate this division.

[Hidden in reply to Contra21]

It's so very disturbing that there is a divide being created, some people have very real and genuine fears about the vaccines, it's not that simple to just go and get jabbed for people such as yourself and many many others, I loose my job next month because I've refused the vaccine, it's a very difficult situation, would your brother not be satisfied if you agreed to take a pcr test each time you visited baby? as an alternative? I too am in very similar circumstances but if it were that simple for me to get vaccinated then I would, but it isn't and I have too many concerns about the data etc so my choice is to not have the vaccine yet, I don't care anymore what people think and those who judge me aren't worth knowing in the first place. Xx

[Contra21 in reply to Hidden]

Exactly! Real fears but ppl are so easy to say go get vaccinated. Friends and family have turned when it's not right. I too will wait...

[Hidden]

There's different vaccines and medicines being developed and studied for covid and research suggests that we may have different options and vaccines to choose from in the near future, so choosing to wait a while might give us less fearful options? Choosing to wait does however mean that we need to take extra care and use other protective measures eg masks, distancing, hand hygiene etcStay safe and try not to worry, things may change xx