Control and abuse

[Saphire87]

My bf controls me an i'm always wrong,

I've only got him but he always tells me everything is my fault. I know it isn't but i have nobody else. It has gotten so bad that we went zip lining and i got stuck half way and was left dangling above a lake with my panic attack. I'm a normal wight but he blamed it on me and said it was my fault. I cant take this cruelty anymore he even attacked me and got me put in jail for defending myself but he never admitted attacking me. I hate him but i have know body else i need a new life but im alone

[Hidden]

Hi saphire87.

I’m so sorry for your suffering. I would urge you to get out of this relationship. It sounds toxic and so bad for your health. He attacked you,, that is totally unacceptable and so is his awful behaviour to you.

Being alone free from the anguish and danger of that person is the best choice.

It’s so good you made a start by reaching out here, take that a step further and reach out to an organisation who can help support you to leave. Or if you have a relative or someone you can stay with then seriously consider your options.

I realise you may not be in the uk, but you will have places you can turn to. Im sure most countries would have safe places for you to reach out and get support and help...I’m attaching a link of one in the uk who help when women are suffering domestic violence /abuse.. it has some interesting reading contained in it...around domestic abuse..

womensaid.org.uk/informatio...

You can make anew life for yourself ( without the fear pain and anguish) which you certainly deserve. Please don’t tolerate this awful unacceptable behaviour any longer, and placing yourself in danger..

Best wishes xx

[Saphire87 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for responding to me and giving me advice. Its so nice to hear from you and i really appreciate it. I have already blocked him and im trying to delete him from insurance on car but they're closed. I'm doing my best to get out of this but i have nobody else but its for the best because he makes me cry every day. Thank you for your support x

[Hidden in reply to Saphire87]

Take care, it can turn nasty if they know your making inroads to leave...

Do try find an organisation to assist you.

Best wishes xxx

[sweetiepye]

You won't be as alone without him as you are with him. Without him you will have your self esteem and self respect. Please take Olivia40's advice to heart. It's so important. Take care. Pam

[amh6971]

He makes u feel alone. This is how these kind of men (and women sometimes) work. They make u feel like u have no way out, but you do. Get out before he wears u down so far there is no coming back.

I wish u all the best. X

[Jssir]

you need to move on! why do you need someone else? are you dependent on him for money? if not, force yourself to be alone. Seek counseling & learn to love yourself.

Good luck.