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I am here because I was just feeling all alone I just need somebody to hear me people around me are so judgemental they don't understand my problem I just want to talk not even my parents not my boyfriend not my friends nobody and I boys searching for a counselor or a psychologist near me but then I found this site where I can write and share what I feel so is the story I have lost my brother 2 year back but there is nobody to hear me I just miss him like anything I just want him back I want him to hug once but I know this was not going to happen right now I am in a complicated relationship I mean I am not able to explain it I love a guy but my parents don't like him they don't even want to look his face they are trying to convince me to stay away from him but it's really don't happening in head boy also want me to leave them I love my parents so much I can't believe them I know I am stuck between two of them I just want to live my life on my own terms but nobody is letting me to do so tell in love forcing me even that guys also forcing me I don't understand anything I am stucked at this point of time or at this point of life I just want somebody to hear me I just want to speak my heart out I just want to be loved I don't know when it going to be happen I am very bad explaining things that's all for today thank you so much

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We hear you

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Matt3013

Welcome to this place. Everyone here is really friendly and you can talk and seek advice or just someone to listen to you. X

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Delanna

I understand. Your brother is in heaven and he is proud of you

The love of your life. A man will do whatever it takes to never loose a woman.

Your parent acknowledge you went enough in time.

I wish you well

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Smithy115

Hi,

You are still not come to terms about losing your brother and all the other pressures I.e. boyfriend/parents behaviour.

You need to speak to someone about this someone like a doctor or a church official , talking to someone who is not involved will really help

you . Don’t think about it just make the appointment and do it !

Best of luck.

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Please make an appointment with a phycologist. I did not want to go, but it is the best thing in the world!

Doctors do not have time, 10 minutes maybe, and the professional is trained to listen. They are a great help in getting you in a better place, and can speak up for you with your doctors.

I never said the right things at my doctor appointments, and I am always rushed. This guy, the phycologist, listens, asks questions, and offers ideas.

This plan sure works better than what I was doing. I'd go to my doctor. He didn't hear me. Prescribe me too strong of a medicine. He didn't hear me when I would tell him it's too strong. So I'd complain to my girlfriend. For 2 years now! THIS DOES NOT WORK. My anxiety just gets worse and worse, because I literally need a way out. Someone always has to give me "A WAY OUT." A GAME PLAN.

I'm so sorry for the hole in your heart over the loss of your brother. No one can take his place.

The same for you is also true. No one can replace you!

Honestly think about something for me...

I'm a Mom. I love my children and would do everything in my power to protect them.

Would you step back a bit and ask yourself, is Mom protecting me?

And your Dad. He's probably sick to his stomach if he feels like he's loosing you.

Try talking with them. Ask them what their concerns are. And then you'll know.

Hang in there! I love this group too!!

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