Hey all my names Jordan I'm male 16 I need Some help I have anxiety and I'm going to meet my new boyfriend tomorrow and he's 19 I get really worried and paranoid that something bads going to happen to me for some reason I don't know why but I need some help if you get me aha I know nothing bads going to happen because we love each other so much it's just things you read about on the internet doesn't help aha any advise or anything thank you
Worried about meeting my boyfriend help pl... - Anxiety Support
Hi Jordan, well the big day is tomorrow. I know you've mentioned this before about your anticipatory anxiety in meeting your new boyfriend. There's always a chance when meeting someone new that it may not turn out like you thought. I hope you are meeting in a public place. Loving each other or not, when meeting on the internet, your first priority is to Stay Safe. Take it slowly, enjoy your day and see where it takes you. Because you are only 16, I would say to let someone know where you will be. Let us know how it went for you.
I figured Jordan. You may have to turn to someone else you can trust either a nurse at school or a relative. I was very worried about you. You just turned 16 and there is a big difference in a 19y.o. You can't undo what's been done but somehow you need to get help and get yourself checked out. Do you have an older brother or sister you can turn to?? They may be able to sit down with your mom and talk this through. I'm sure as scared as you are, that your mother would rather you be safe and tell her what happened then do keep this from her.