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hi everyone Im worried about my girlfriend..

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My girlfriend has been fine all day we went out with here family and had a nice day ,we had some ice cream and she's (lactose intolerant) she was cleaning up her room telling me how she feels like she's getting sick and Ia sled her what was wrong she told me her body hurts and doesn't feel good, within hours she started burning up with a fever Ive been up since its now 4am I put a wash cloth on her head to try and bring down the fever gave her liquid medicine thats fever reducer and body ache relief its flu medicine, she complained about being hot and i turned on the fan she's burning up everywhere on her body I'm really worried and stressing but I'm taking care of her so of course I'm not freaking out I can't go to sleep cause I'm scared something might happen , i googled fever within hours and so much crap came up cancer and other dumb things, I just need some advice on what to do… :/

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fadedlizard

You're doing all the right things. It'll be a bug and should be past the worst in a few hrs. Have confidence in yourself. And don't stress - you would know the difference and act decisively if she were to get much worse. Its just the anxiety that makes you question yourself.

You can ride this out with her. You're being a fab b/f and really looking after her :)

in reply to fadedlizard

thank you very much for the support I appreciate it, I'm trying my best.

Hi

You are doing all the right things except maybe looking on Google :-/

See how she is & if she doesn't feel any better maybe ask her GP for some more advise if you feel it is needed but don't ask Google !

She is very lucky to have such a caring BF :-)

Hope you get some sleep & she feels a lot better soon :-)

Love

whywhy

xxx

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thank you why why, ill stay away from google haha, but i would ask her doctor but she doesn't really have a primary doctor she doesn't have health insurance or anything :/ she was fine this morning but just about a cople hours ago she started shaking getting chills and she's retuning a fever and her body aches really bad so idk if i should be worried or just keep doing what I'm doing , my mom said its probably just the chills but idk..

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Yummimummi

What a lovely boyfriend you are:)

Ok so try and keep calm, deep breathing, it always helps:)

Stay away from Dr Google... Massive no no:)

You re doing all the correct things but as whywhy says, I would call her gp and get further advice.

I hope she gets better soon hunni:)

Take care xxx

in reply to Yummimummi

thank you yummi, I'm staying as calm as i can when I have too take care of a loved one i don't get anxiety its weird but I'm breathing ha, like i told why why she felt fine this morning we had breakfast her body still hurt she was being her silly self then all of the sudden a couple hours ago she started shaking tremendously and got chills and her body started hurting more she was crying and now she's running a fever, i went too the store bought chicken noodle soup and 7up waiting for my mom too come home and help me I'm just really worried about her hope its nothing serious..

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