Partner troubles...

Had another good day again only thing is my partner has really brought me down.. It's quarter to 11 on christmas night (if you don't live in the UK) and I'm sat at home on my own because he would rather stay at his mom and dads than come home with me, am I being silly for being really annoyed or?? Hope your all ok xx

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*quarter to 12 I meant!!

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Evening Keyleigh,

Sounds a bit strenge he never came home with you, did he give you a reason for this?

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Hi

This is a bit tricky to answer for several reasons , I no you are 19 but not sure how old your BF is ?

I have a son your age who has a GF & as you saw in my post I had her round for tea but they had to give & take a bit this year as she wanted to spend time with her family & my son wanted to spend time with us

So she had Christmas dinner with her Mum & Dad , mu son had his with his & then she came here & then went back to her parents

Now my son loves her I do know that but at Christmas it can be a bit difficult as I no as much as they love each other they don't want to think they might be upsetting either set of parents so they came to a compromise & did it this way

Maybe you BF was feeling something like this & thought he was doing the right thing but I am sure he loves you as you were saying he was upset when you were moving out of his & back to your parents & I am sure he wouldn't have felt that way if he didn't care

Sorry if this answer doesn't help because I don't know that much about the circumstances but when you talk to him next calmly explain how he made you feel

Love

whywhy

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Hi both, thanks for posting back. I went to my moms for dinner at 12 and he went to his moms for dinner at the same time so he's been there ever since then, he asked me to go round to his parents but i said no because I've found out that his mom has been talking about me behind my back and she's threatened me in a text message last week so I obviously didn't want to go round there huff!! Just didn't want to spend christmas night alone sorry if it seems like I'm moaning!! Don't want to put a downer on your moods xxx

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And why why my partner is 19 too and your right christmas can be very tricky!!! Xx

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Hi

Sounds like he was in a predicament trying to keep the two women in his life happy

I can understand why you didn't want to go there either after what his Mum did !

When you get some time together when you can both talk tell him how he made you feel & I am sure he will reassure you just how much you mean to him

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Thanks why why i feel a lot better think I just needed a little pick me up!! Always appreciated, how's your day been?? Well done for today you did yourself proud !! I wonder how I could get a diagnosis about me from anywhere!! Xx

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Its been a very nice day thank you , other than dealing with my OCD

Do you mean a diagnosis over how you feel ?

The best thing is to see your GP , be honest tell them how you feel , what you think , write it down if you feel you will struggle to speak as lots of us to & they will take it from there & give you the professional opinion

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That's good, lovely to hear and yes, I guess so but all they do is try and prescribe tablets! I know it's no good to diagnose yourself but I'm sure I suffer from pure 'o' OCD, may take a trip to the gp! Anyway I think it's time to go to sleep, goodnight godbless and I hope you have a good day tomorrow! Thanks for the chat again why why xx

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You don't have to take medication if you don't want to I don't , there are other alternatives like counselling & you can tell your GP that is what you would like to try if it is something that you feel would be helpful

Good night

Hope you get to speak to your BF tomorrow

xxx