hello! i really need some advice because I'm really having a hard time with my girlfriend. i have no energy to fully explain the context though it's important so Imma try my best to summarize. I have a post not too long ago about struggling with my GF and her choosing her family over anything and though things have gotten better. We're still struggling. 1. I didn't grow up with luxury of vacationing and traveling with family. She's experienced that her whole life. Atleast 2 vacations a year. We're going on almost 3 years together and her first trip where she chose her family was a trip to europe during my birthday. it was an important birthday too. she chose to stay with me then her mom talked her into going on the trip. after that, we dealt with other things due to her family but i would write a novel if i explained that. since that europe trip and past traumas with abandonment.. I struggle with separation anxiety and she hasn't really helped me heal. There hasn't been any change or any want to support me through it. she thinks im attacking her and finding what's wrong with her and it's frustrating. she's been on 2 family vacations this year, where i couldn't go bc there was always a reason why the trip was "important" to her. in 2 weeks, she's going to her cousin's wedding in mexico. the wedding has been planned for about a year. i always had this hope i'd be able to go but the bride insists it's an intimate thing. so my gf made it seem like she didn't want me to go by just telling me, "you're not invited" when I've brought up going. she also made me think she never talked to her cousin about me going. to then ask her for me, where her cousin respectfully said no. i had no issue with it. to then find out my gf already asked her in the beginning and got in an argument with her but never told me because she didn't want me hating her cousin. That then triggered me to her worrying about her family over because she cared more to protect her cousin then to protect me and her's relationship. before this trip, she went to Cabo with just her parents and made up reasons why I couldn't go but I debunked them after the trip and I was okay not going on the trip, i thought I was mentally strong to handle it. She left and I was dog sitting her dog and I went into a freak out because I felt alone and FOMO. I don't have many friends right now because people grow apart. She was gone 5 days and i expressed to her my struggles, which we then got into a fight when she got back, making it seem like i hold her back and stuff. so then a week after this trip, her parents booked the wedding flights. which she was gonna be gone for 6 days, even though the wedding is just friday and they're only doing stuff wednesday thursday. but because her parents wanted to go a day earlier, she obviously didn't refuse. they said because the flights were cheaper. keep in mind.. they're very well off. like, buy a $7k bag just cause. and the ticket prices are only like $100 round trip. And I'm trying to explain to her to work with me and listen to me. I asked her if she could maybe not go so long since not everyone is getting there when she would. and she puts up a fight and says why that's wrong of me and i need to think about her mental health and her sacrifices and i just don't know what to do because I really love this girl with all my heart. Her traveling and doing stuff without me is hard and it's hard for me to get stronger and heal from it because she doesn't work with me. I'm depressed because I didn't ask to be like this. I also wish to be included in things. I just don't know what to do. She's insisted on going the 6 days and like I don't know if I could continue this relationship if she can't work with me. She says she is working with me.. she could prolong her trip to 2 weeks because her parents are traveling more but she's coming back home. but im telling her how it was hard when she was gone for 5 days in cabo, so i don't know if more days about 2 months later is gonna make that magically go away because i haven't worked through it and i havent felt supported with it. i do go to therapy and my therapist doesn't think she's good for me in the sense of my mental health but like this thing with her family is like the only issue. i also get triggered with abandonment because when she's with her family, she's in another world.. her life is controlled by them and their opinions and wants. so whenever she leaves somewhere with family, even local.. i know she's basically gone. yeah i could text her and call her but she's 100% there with them and doesnt really think for herself. can someone tell me if Im crazy because i feel like something is genuinely wrong with me because what i need from my girlfriend.. she can't do.
if you read all this.. thank you so much for your time.
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