Ive been with my girlfriend nearly 2 months. She is perfect.
Weve been taking things slow and both of use are happy!
I suffer and have suffered all my life from low self esteem and anxiety so can understand where she is coming from when i tell you this.
Ive known she suffers herself from anxiety. She hasnt been in a relationship for 4 years but said when she met me she was so happy and drawn to me it didnt worry her at all. We always went out in groups as well as seeing each other once a week on our own.
About a month ago she started being sick, nothing seemed to cause it apart from her anxiety she said. It wasnt nessesarily being sick when i was with her although she was a few times in my prescence. She hasnt thrown up probobly in about a month now although she has cancelled seeing me quite alot in the past 3 weeks and it started to worry me and make me anxious! but we have kept up an amazing relationship regardless and both couldnt be happier.
Last night she admitted she gets very anxious around me for no reason or reasons, she says, she doesnt know. I dont know about any past relationships shes been in or why shed be like this as all ive done is love care and support her and she knows this!
My concern is i dont want it to effect her anymore or our relationship.
What do i do to reassure her im here for her whatever and whenever other than telling her this?