Well today after the txt I got from the ex last night I woke up really angry, so I txt my ex to say that everything aside we have still been together for a year and have know each other for 8, and that it's a slap in face that they are just acting like the last year hasn't even happened. I got back a txt to say that I was selfish and it's all about me and that they have a family member very ill at the moment and that's all they are worrying about nothing to do with us.
I'm truly sorry that this is going on in their life but I can't help but think that it's not my fault and they can't just hurt my feelings then use the excuse that their family member is ill to get out of having to deal with the stuff between us...I'm maybe not explaining myself very well but I've ended up feeling like a gigantic arse.
Tears have literally streamed from my face all day...I'm surprised I have any left.
Is that nasty from me to say that or I'm I justified ?