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Is there something wrong with me?

Yes it's stupid, but I can't help but feel I'm unwanted here. Nobody is ever interested in my posts, I'm lucky to get one reply, but everyone else seems to have at least 5 comments. I just feel ignored at the moment so I haven't been posting much, it's not your fault, but if I've done something please tell me...

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Hi muffin ,

Well I have answered all your posts except one I think , so not guilty & after I have thought has she read them as you dont answer to the replies :(

I think muffin if you look around , hun , it is quite on here , not as many of the old ones on yet & i am missing them all to

Is not you muffin , but I do try & answer as many as I can , sometimes though I dont always have an answer :o

And you no what , I am going to have to start posting as much as I answer as well , as that is my downfall :o

((((((((hugs )))))))

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Hiya whywhy hope your keeping well and yes you should start posting as you are always helping others. Talk soon big hugs xxx Seyi xxx

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You no I just saw you pop up & thought "Thank you " seyi is on :)

xxx

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Hi Muffin

I have recently come back as i could not get here for some reason. I am so happy i can talk with good people like yourself and whywhy

Please do not think you have done anything wrong.

Like whywhy said its quiet on here lately and many names have disappeared.

Take care

Hugs

Love Seyi xxx

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Yay - you made it :) We would have sent out a search party but weren't sure where to send it!!! Really pleased you're back.

Love

Lizard.x

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Hi Muffin,

Sorry you're feeling that way. I'm afraid I'm probably guilty of posting more than replying. Sometimes I think I have nothing helpful to say, others, I'm having a bad day myself & think it's not the best time to reply.

I'm sure it's nothing you've done

Take care

x

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You do reply thomson & you are always making me smile :)

xxx

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Thanks whywhy, I try & ditto :-)

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Hello Muffin,

A lot of people do read blogs but at the same don't feel comfortable in replying to them.

I myself will read the majority of blogs on this site and will read them several times to make sure i fully understand what that person is saying, but I hardly reply to them which I know is bad but I genuinely don't feel comfortable in replying as I think I might say something wrong or it could get misinterpreted and make the person feel worse - silly I know!!

You aren't doing anything wrong.

:)

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Well that responce was great , I think you explained how some feel very well

:)

xxx

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Hey Muffin I do read most of your blogs, but at times I don't feel up to commenting on them just coz my head is a bit all over the shop at the mo and I don't feel I can be constructive this is the case with a lot of the blogs I read on here. You are not unwanted in think things in general are quiet on here at the moment.

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Hi-ya Sweetie,

Of course it's not you, please don't think that :O

I think a lot of us are all over the place at the moment. I'm still here, still reading but not always getting round to replying. Just feeling rubbish at the moment :(

Hope you have a better day.

Love

Lizard.xxx

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I,m guilty as charged too,I am on the site every day and I expect other people to answer blogs as I am rubbish at advice and giving help,well ,loved your photo of your dog the other day and we do read all your blogs,

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Hi Muffin :) .

You have no need to feel unwanted,I have read all of your posts and found them most interesting and often touching . Just because we don't all respond doesn't mean we don't care , you are very good at how you express your feelings in your posts , you don't rant on and are able to communicate how your many problems are affecting you , because our circumstances are so different ( not to mention the age gap lol ) I feel unable to give advice but do so appreciate your input to this forum and look forward to reading more of your posts.

Take care

Kenny-w :D

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Hi Muffin and the rest - I feel very guilty atm cos I'm not replying :-O Don't really know why, just feel drained, nothing to give, mentally exhausted - and, yes, I am finding the new format more difficult to deal with.

I DO care, my friends, just SO sorry I'm no use atm! :(

Hugs to everyone, particularly Muffin!

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Love

Rose

xxxxx

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Hi I've been away.

You've not done anything wrong hun. Not that I know of anyway, you've been nothing but compassionate and kind - and honest. Only admiration can come from being honest. I've been forced to refrain from being here as my laptop is barely efficient, it's horrible. But I've read your blogs when I can. Love to hear from you if you want to drop me a private message. :) And I'll try and reply if I can get my laptop to cooperate - or maybe borrow my sister's. ;)

Take care hun,

Love

Fairy flip flop :) xxxx

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