I'm so depressed and cannot seem to get out of my mental state. Ive never been so depressed that I reach out to anyone let alone a group. But here I am. I do have a counselor but it's not enough it seems once a week. I have ongoing disabilities for 4 years, I cannot stand long, I have to use a walker to go somewhere which is maybe 1 to 2 times a month and 10 minutes max it seems or it feels my legs more my torso will feel it's going to give out. I believe I have LYME disease, 4 Bands were positive in 2022. Untreated, because I don't meet the criteria for the CDC of 5 Bands. But Lyme sites and forums say I have it I feel so lost!
I have to many referrals to doctors and not getting to any fast, but they are the same type doctors I've seen in the past with no answers.
My mental state is declining, my health is declining.
I get froze with anything on what to do, it's like I'm paralyzed in a crazy thought pattern due to my mind and my body. Scared of trying new things, scared of how I'm feeling, and scared I'll be like this until die. It's like I want the magic pill that resolves everything but there's no such thing, and I get nothing accomplished. I know I need help but I don't have support. I feel like I need someone to pull me out of this hole I'm in but there's no one but me and I am incapable apparently. I try my pep talks with myself but they don't last.
How do I get out of this? LYME disease forums I see tells you so many remedies to try but they are so foreign to me, it's like being in another universe where I don't speak their language. They suggest you need to get a Lyme doctors, try these herbs, tinctures to try, it feels like a rabbit hole. Then I don't know that's even the cause of my mental state but it can be from LYME Disease. I just want a doctor who truly cares one that will help me fight not just throw pills and referrals my way.
Anyhow, this is part of where I'm at in my depression. There's so much more to it. Being home bound just sitting or sleep when I can at night I'm home 95% of every year, no outlets, I can't go for walks or exercise. I lost my youngest son in June 2024 to suicide. I need a place to live, I currently in March 2024 had to move in with my oldest son and wife, they need their house back to themselves, I feel like a burden.
I don't know what I want or need I just need to be ok again but how! I've been fighting this for 4 years and in a new healthcare system since last March, and nothing's getting anywhere