Many here have no family, many have burnt bridges, many have isolation and social anxiety, and many live in fear of outside social situations even if it is with friends and family. When I first divorced from my 'ex-' of a fifteen year marriage....all our friends were not comfortable feeling like they had to take sides, so many avoided me in social situations we used to all enjoy together. Then previously I had to distance myself from some toxic family friends....And to top it off, the not so great memories I had from my childhood I pretty much had put behind me about my past lack of family and holidays, was now again at the forefront....I was again....alone during the holidays.
So.... I decided that I was done licking my wounds, and feeling alone...and I decided to make my own happy holiday celebration with my cat and I....yep....we got some great stuff to eat, cat included, and bought something I liked and really wanted to treat myself with. I loved it...and no....I was okay...I still hate 'rom com holiday movies'....but that's okay....I can watch what ever I want to.
Sometimes we are alone in life, but we can learn to be okay with that too.... sometimes I prefer to have my alone time and space even now, and I think that's healthy for anyone to be content with themselves doing your own thing too.