It's time

[darkthoughts504]

Hi, time to get rid of my son I can't do this anymore. If I don't get him from around me I am gonna die. I have to start doing what is best for me cause if I don't I'm probably gonna commit suicide. Sometimes your fam is the enemy and so called friends. Please do not forget about yourselves we matter to.

[fauxartist]

What is he doing that has you so upset, maybe talking about it will help.

[darkthoughts504 in reply to fauxartist]

I have talked enough I do not owe him anything. I raised my kids and I will not let any of them send me to my grave before I am ready to go in a hole or wall. He is 21 will be 22 in May he is the only one out of 7 that is in my home and he is not trying to get his life in order. And he is disrespectful, lazy and I am just tired of his bullshit. I feel like a prisoner in my own house

[fauxartist in reply to darkthoughts504]

Give him a formal notice of eviction, and then get a restraining order.

[darkthoughts504 in reply to fauxartist]

He is gone

[fauxartist in reply to darkthoughts504]

So your problem is solved, good for you.

[Trevor6]

o am so sorry you feel like this , and it’s good you have bravely opened up here. This is a great site, and everyone is here to chat and offer help and advice, maybe try contacting the moderators who are wonderful people, I myself suffer from multiple conditions and depression it can be awkward at times , please chat to someone, maybe a sibling, friend or neighbour . Take care you are not alone

[hypercat54]

We have been saying for a long time that you need to get your son out of your home. I know its very hard because you are his mother. But it sounds like he is much too hard work for you especially if you are thinking of suicide.

Thinking of you.

[darkthoughts504 in reply to hypercat54]

Yes, he is a big problem and when he leaves I will still feel the same way because of the other stuff that bothers me

[Elvis100]

Know you are not alone. But it does sound like help is needed at this time, you have already made a step by reaching out here, so reaching out again to those around you that can help directly will hopefully be your next move. You are brave. Take care

[anseda]

Doing that to your son is the hardest thing to do. I don't know your situation, but if you do this, you'll both be able to grow. I can tell you from personal experience, it is filled with guilt, and fear, anger, confusion. You need to have distance to get some clarity.

But if you wouldn't mind sharing some details, maybe we could help a little more. We are here for you.😊

[darkthoughts504 in reply to anseda]

1ST: I will always have thoughts of ending my life that will never change. 2ND; he will never change so he need to move on I have given him many chances and its time to part ways. He chose his path so he will be back on the street because he don't want to help himself